An author once compared himself to a stranger who approached a beggar that has been sitting on the same box for 30 years, asking people for money. He asked the beggar to look inside the box, but the beggar laughed at such a ridiculous request. "I've been sitting on it for 30 years, i know there's nothing in it!" But the stranger insisted and eventually, the beggar gave up. He opened the box and to his amazement, found it filled with gold coins. He's always posessed that which he has been seeking all these years. I'm not gonna lie to myself and say that i'm worthy of being compared to that aurhor, but for your sake, i'll assume the role of the stranger.
If you could choose to make getting women as easy or as difficult as you want it to be, what would you choose? Unless you've laid so many women that nothing but a big challenge excites you anymore, you'll choose to make it easy, painless and effortless. You'll choose to make it something you can do while you're going about doing other, more important things. Something that you don't have to focus on, study or make a big priority in life in order to excel at. The good news is that you have that choice. You've always had it. It's the box filled with gold.
That's exactly what separates us from natural seducers: somewhere along the line they made the choice to make seduction easy, and we did not. The pure and simple truth is that getting women is precisely as easy or as difficult as you think it is. Read the last sentence again. This is why naturals can't really convey their methods to us. There are no methods. When you ask them about "what they said to get her," they look at you with a slight look of confusion, as if they're wondering why you'd even be interested in such a thing. Its like asking what toothpaste they used that morning or how many spoons of sugar they put in their coffee. What difference does it make? The teeth got brushed, the coffee got made, the girl got ****ed. They're the simplest of tasks, anyone has the ability to do them, so why ask for advice on them?
So once again, getting women is precisely as easy or as difficult as you think it is. It can be as easy breathing or as difficult as getting a PhD. That's because beliefs are infectious. If you believe that women you interact with have to be gamed, they'll pick up on your belief and go along with it. Subconsciously. See, if you believe that you have to work for it, you feel that you yourself aren't good enough for it. That there must be something more, some great skill to aid you. You feel inferior and that's what they'll pick up on. And they'll make you compensate, they'll make you have a great skill, or tons of money, or amazing looks... or they'll tell you to get the **** out. They'll test you and resist you because you expect to be tested and resisted. Try asking a chick if the number she gave you as real (unlike the others, she'll presume) or if she'll pick up when you call (unlike the others, she'll presume), and see how far you get with her.
The belief that women have to be gamed is the single biggest limiting belief of all. The sole existence of this entire community can be attributed to it. Dozens of complex theories have sprung up around it. The more people study them, the deeper the proverbial hole they've dug themselves into becomes. When they fail, they'll think its because their game wasn't good enough. In reality, it had a lot more to do with her than it did with them. But not knowing that, they'll study harder and harder. And when they succeed, they'll attribute their success to their game as well. In reality, they succeeded because they believed they could. Because they reached a point where they felt their game was good enough. Because they believed that it made them worthy, made them irresistible to women. In reality, its not the game that gets you women. Or the new set of clothes, or the great body, or the expensive car. Its the confidence you get from believing that whatever it is you have makes women want you. Its the effect of external factors on internal beliefs and nothing more. But what you have to realize is that your beliefs are already under your control. The power to change them at will is the gold inside the box you've been sitting on your whole life.
I guarantee you that if you can make yourself believe, really believe, that you're good enough the way you are, that you already have all it takes, and that you have to work for or prove nothing, your success rate will double. Hell, it'll probably quadruple! Because the grand sum of every single skill and technique discussed here from day one is lesser than the power given to you by that one simple belief. That you're the catch. The you're happy the way you are and content with yourself. That you've got a great life, with or without women. That you don't have to say or do anything out of the ordinary to get women. All you have to do is be there, and talk. And yes, "be yourself." But be a great self, be a powerful self, be a self that every chick would want. "Be yourself" was touted as the worst advice that could be given to an AFC. In reality, its the best advice, even if the critics weren't wise enough to recognize it as such.
Make the choice.
To be continued...
If you could choose to make getting women as easy or as difficult as you want it to be, what would you choose? Unless you've laid so many women that nothing but a big challenge excites you anymore, you'll choose to make it easy, painless and effortless. You'll choose to make it something you can do while you're going about doing other, more important things. Something that you don't have to focus on, study or make a big priority in life in order to excel at. The good news is that you have that choice. You've always had it. It's the box filled with gold.
That's exactly what separates us from natural seducers: somewhere along the line they made the choice to make seduction easy, and we did not. The pure and simple truth is that getting women is precisely as easy or as difficult as you think it is. Read the last sentence again. This is why naturals can't really convey their methods to us. There are no methods. When you ask them about "what they said to get her," they look at you with a slight look of confusion, as if they're wondering why you'd even be interested in such a thing. Its like asking what toothpaste they used that morning or how many spoons of sugar they put in their coffee. What difference does it make? The teeth got brushed, the coffee got made, the girl got ****ed. They're the simplest of tasks, anyone has the ability to do them, so why ask for advice on them?
So once again, getting women is precisely as easy or as difficult as you think it is. It can be as easy breathing or as difficult as getting a PhD. That's because beliefs are infectious. If you believe that women you interact with have to be gamed, they'll pick up on your belief and go along with it. Subconsciously. See, if you believe that you have to work for it, you feel that you yourself aren't good enough for it. That there must be something more, some great skill to aid you. You feel inferior and that's what they'll pick up on. And they'll make you compensate, they'll make you have a great skill, or tons of money, or amazing looks... or they'll tell you to get the **** out. They'll test you and resist you because you expect to be tested and resisted. Try asking a chick if the number she gave you as real (unlike the others, she'll presume) or if she'll pick up when you call (unlike the others, she'll presume), and see how far you get with her.
The belief that women have to be gamed is the single biggest limiting belief of all. The sole existence of this entire community can be attributed to it. Dozens of complex theories have sprung up around it. The more people study them, the deeper the proverbial hole they've dug themselves into becomes. When they fail, they'll think its because their game wasn't good enough. In reality, it had a lot more to do with her than it did with them. But not knowing that, they'll study harder and harder. And when they succeed, they'll attribute their success to their game as well. In reality, they succeeded because they believed they could. Because they reached a point where they felt their game was good enough. Because they believed that it made them worthy, made them irresistible to women. In reality, its not the game that gets you women. Or the new set of clothes, or the great body, or the expensive car. Its the confidence you get from believing that whatever it is you have makes women want you. Its the effect of external factors on internal beliefs and nothing more. But what you have to realize is that your beliefs are already under your control. The power to change them at will is the gold inside the box you've been sitting on your whole life.
I guarantee you that if you can make yourself believe, really believe, that you're good enough the way you are, that you already have all it takes, and that you have to work for or prove nothing, your success rate will double. Hell, it'll probably quadruple! Because the grand sum of every single skill and technique discussed here from day one is lesser than the power given to you by that one simple belief. That you're the catch. The you're happy the way you are and content with yourself. That you've got a great life, with or without women. That you don't have to say or do anything out of the ordinary to get women. All you have to do is be there, and talk. And yes, "be yourself." But be a great self, be a powerful self, be a self that every chick would want. "Be yourself" was touted as the worst advice that could be given to an AFC. In reality, its the best advice, even if the critics weren't wise enough to recognize it as such.
Make the choice.
To be continued...
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