i am really glad more and more people realize that hate and bitterness is not sexy
yes, women are like they are, it's not like we men are better. it's how the game works. there are some conventional labels like alpha/red pill/etc, but that is all they are. it really is about one thing: open your eyes, see the ugly stuff, accept it, and get in the game. the red pill isn't supposed to make anyone hate women, it's supposed to make people see the reality better, give an adge against the bluepill guys aka white knights(slaves for women), good guys(decieved manipulators who think acting all girly and sensitive will get the poon), and even the wannabe "alphas", etc
putting yourself above any woman and getting them down from the pedestal does not mean one should act all high and mighty, or even worse, force-act like it. it means to see that women are the same like us, with the same kind of fears, the same stupid hobbies, the same morons we are, maybe worse. this is not a reason to hate them, i really love girls as persons. they can be manipulative evil cvnts, but so can we. also it is supposed to free us from the fear of women, aka the fear of losing their respect/validation etc. this is why so many husbands are literally afraid of their wives. not because they are strong muscular women, but because the husbands are terrorized by the idea that the wife will not validate them as men, or they falsely fear of losing them. women see this, and use this to their advantage. can you blame them?
i really do feel the forum lost the cool, laid-back atmosphere it had in the early 2000's. but it can be brought back, it just needs some weeding out: the obvious trolls, fanatic bluepills fighting the war for the holy delusion of the st. Woman, the covert misandric women and by giving actual useful advice to those who ask. i am by no means a veteran ladies' man, there is much to evolve and learn, that is why i am here, and to drop something useful from my experience with the chicks, to those who need it and can use it.
on topic: the problem with this supposed cok carousel controversy is that we tend to forget, that most of those guys who are the "beneficiaries":
1. they are the same guys (not 90% of men, but way less), who either look very handsome, have crazy game, or they simply have no standards (thus the false illusion of below average hen, goose and whales of them looking good and "deserving the best"). i mean just take a look at the tools drooling under a facebook pic posted by some cross-eyed weirdo looking girl, donating the "likes", adoring her with copy paste compliments, and lately with lame memes, all just about ready to be the white knight for those second rate females.
2. don't frequent this forum (or very few do)
another point is that the whining threads are made by those who are not included into this supposed carousel, but they are not the majority of men.
most men are mildly included, and they don't even know it, they think the girl loves them/wants LTR etc. and when they find out that they were suckered, they come here and start a thread about how to get back the girl. of course he gets to be told that helloo, girls like to "just screw around" too, and they are labeled bytches. instead, they should just next the girl, and go forward for some more success. but the majority just gets bitter, loses trust in EVERY woman, and turns to trolling or trashing on the forum.
getting burnt by women, or burn them occasionally, it's normal. sometimes you game, sometimes you ARE the game. learn from it, and move on. it is the way to wisdom. crawling into a corner in a defensive position is not. it's the way to loser's hell.
