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Master Don Juan
I've been going out with this girl for the past year or so. She wen't to Europe for a quarter, was faithful to me, but I ended up hooking up with a couple different girls.
Anyway, she's back now, I told her about the things that happened, and we continued going out.
THe problem is that I've SERIOUSLY lost interest in her. I used to think that I LOVED this girl before she left (a few might even remember the posts I had made a couple months ago about it), but some things have changed.
For one thing, being around her has seemed to irritate me. Not her saying or doing anything exactly, but just her demeanor seems to get on my nerves.
The sex has also been fairly sh*tty (or I just now realize it is). First of all, she doesn't want to get into it as much as I'd like, and second of all, she's been wanting to do it not as frequently as I want.
But the biggest thing is that I just don't feel we're "right" for each other anymore.
The hard thing is that I USED to REALLY LIKE her. I told her that we're going back to just dating, which we have been, but I've been losing interest in even that!
So it would make sense that I should dump her for good and move on, right? But as weird as it sounds, I don't want to LOSE her! I took her virginity and it irritates me knowing that if I stop dating her she'll be banging some other dude.
Any opinions here?
Anyway, she's back now, I told her about the things that happened, and we continued going out.
THe problem is that I've SERIOUSLY lost interest in her. I used to think that I LOVED this girl before she left (a few might even remember the posts I had made a couple months ago about it), but some things have changed.
For one thing, being around her has seemed to irritate me. Not her saying or doing anything exactly, but just her demeanor seems to get on my nerves.
The sex has also been fairly sh*tty (or I just now realize it is). First of all, she doesn't want to get into it as much as I'd like, and second of all, she's been wanting to do it not as frequently as I want.
But the biggest thing is that I just don't feel we're "right" for each other anymore.
The hard thing is that I USED to REALLY LIKE her. I told her that we're going back to just dating, which we have been, but I've been losing interest in even that!
So it would make sense that I should dump her for good and move on, right? But as weird as it sounds, I don't want to LOSE her! I took her virginity and it irritates me knowing that if I stop dating her she'll be banging some other dude.
Any opinions here?