909pua said:
Well personally,The FIRST THING I do is check
MYSELF.
I check myself REGUARDLESS OF whatever she's saying or doing.
The reason I do this is because women are REACTIVE.
We approach a girl,and depending on how we approach her,she either reacts with interest or disinterest.
So let's say she reacts with interest in you,and you two form a relationship.
Well if you two start dating,then obviuosly her interest level is high,or else she wouldn't get into a commited relationship with you.
If you two have been dating for a while,then all the sudden she starts acting "shady",and by "shady" I mean basically flaking,coming up with excuse after excuse not to spend time with you.
Basically it seems like she's avoiding you,and sex is either very low or non-existant.
In that case,MORE THAN LIKELY,it's because
YOU STOPPED DOING whatever it was you did in the approach and at the beginning of the relationship.
This is more likely to be the cause than another guy being in the picture.
909pua said:
Do you make them taste their own medicine?
It really depends on what that "medicine" and your purpose for making her "taste it" is.
If your purpose is to make her get back interested in you again,you'll probably fail.
"Tit for tat",or "I'm going to do X to her because she did Y to me" normally doesn't work if the goal is to re-ignite the interest she had at the beginning.
I don't know everything,but I
DO KNOW this...
If she's acting shady and/or flakey but claims she still wants to be in the relationship,that means
YOU SCREWED UP somewhere.
If there's no other guy involved,she's acting weird,and yet she
still claims to want to be with you,then YOU dropped the ball somewhere.