Jinx man
It's not about validating existance but rather exposing bullsh!t KBJ posters. And there is a difference between posting photos of yourself with random girls in clubs (who will get their picture taken with anyone), and posting a photo of yourself with a woman in your bedroom that is getting freaky with u. As for not knowing if the photos are yours or someone else's, no one who has seen my signature pics will confuse them for someone else, as it is proven to be me. I know about 5 people on this site to have done that, and I can tell that their advice isn't bullsh!t, unlike the KBJ stuff people write here all day in order to escape from their world of no p*ssy. If someone has been here since 2002 and despite posting advice all day long has yet to post any proof of his game, then that's straight up KBJ. Instead of being a bitter KBJ troll, he'd be better off getting laid.STR8UP said:
Bro, come on, you know as well as I do that the last thing most guys want is for someone to find a pic of them on a seduction board. Word would spread like wildfire(ironic) among the local ladies!MindOverMatter said:
I guess she is a little too attached. You're right. It is just a regular, plain ol' message board.Soprano said:
Ehh Ohh woah no need to get PERSONAL yo, wasnt that whole the reason you came in here in the first place lol?MindOverMatter said:
Erm...this has been an ongoing issue for 5 years. My preference is to just deal with it myself as I normally do and if a post crosses the line (attacking loved ones) I alert it and bash the bejesus out of whoever posted it. The only time I have really complained about moderation is when a thread I start that is serious in nature and something worth discussing gets locked because of others attacking me. On those threads I go out of my way NOT to bash back because I want them to stay open. I was told upon complaining about this (several times) that I have to not respond to personal attacks and flaming, stay on topic and alert the offending posts. When I have done that the threads have been locked because of the flamebaiters instead of moderators deleting those posts and allowing it to stay open. Not all mods have done this...but several. When I complained about that I was told basically, that the mod who closed it "didn't feel like dealing with it", so they locked it. Sorry...but if a mod "doesn't feel like" doing their job they need to step down and be replaced. So...to make a long story as short as possible...I just flame back because of the inconsistency between moderators. Don't get me wrong...some of the mods are really great...and others suck ass and only want to be mods for the title and really don't do a damn thing and are lazy. Without a consistent policy (which seems to really be the problem) moderation is going to suck even if some are really good. The bad ones will make the good ones look bad.brucevangeorge said:
I'm not putting you down for working in your chosen field (I almost did it myself), but for me posting pictures is not an option.MindOverMatter said:
I agree.MindOverMatter said:
LOL. That's one way of putting it.Soprano said:
This site is practically useless if you want to actually get advice on anything related to seduction. There are too many AFC's giving out advice or opinionated people trying to impose their will on other people to actually learn anything useful here. I'm not saying that it is wrong to be opinionated; I am myself but this board was meant to be a community where we all help each other out; not waste time jockeying for position. The golden age of sosuave as a seduction community is gone. This was in no way directed at Wyldefire; I'm just on a rant about the ineffectiveness of this board as a tool for seduction.So Many Ways said:
See, that's another thing...I actually DO try to give constructive advice...and I put a lot of thought into the advice I give, too. Anytime I first post on a thread that's what I'm doing...giving advice. More often than not, the advice I give is essentially the same advice coming from the majority...but a little more in depth. If someone posts about a problem they are having...I will honestly try to help them find a solution to the problem. If they refuse to recognize what the actual problem is...I'll try to help them see it and offer a solution to the real problem. Too many guys on here are always responding with "NEXT!" or "Go read the Bible you stupid newbie!" Those posts don't teach anyone anything or help anyone. It just breeds more of the same low quality crap posts this place already has too many of. It is foolish to flame someone who actually does try to offer help just because they will debate their view right into the ground. I'm stubborn, have values that will not budge for anything and me being opinionated is an understatement...and I'm damn good at presenting my side of an argument and finding flaws with views that oppose mine. That makes people think...and lord knows there's not enough of that anywhere, and this site is no exception. You can't all just be robots programmed to behave and act a certain way and have any kind of life. You have to be able to think and analyze things...even yourselves. That's what I'm attempting to help you do. I'm not here to hate, get attention or mislead anyone. If that were my purpose I would have got bored of that a long ass time ago. I'm here to offer something you get from no one else...a look into how your actions will be viewed by the women you are going after. A glimpse into what a woman REALLY thinks and means when she does or says something you don't understand. The fact that I'm very honest, even brutally so, means that you aren't being spoon fed what you want to hear. If I told you what you wanted to hear instead of the truth I wouldn't be fielding so many flames.Ever onward said:
