This is a repost of Fratguy's "HOW TO GET LAID- THE NEW PLAN" as it was originally posted on ASF (www.fastseduction.com). This is Fratguy's work entirely. NONE of it is mine. I just wanted to make that clear.
Date Posted: 2005/04/23 01:35:00 PM EDT
Author: FratGuy <unknown email address>
Subject: HOW TO GET LAID - THE NEW PLAN
Im going to post something ive realized in the last few months. And what i
think the solution is. im not dogging on ASF, just poiting out some things.
WHY ASF CAN BE MISLEADING:
When a guy gets on ASF and reads all this lingo, it helps him understand a lot.
But it also just further confuses him. It makes getting laid seem even harder
than before. And it makes him even more scared of talking to girls. Now he
thinks it is really hard.
A guy who is good with girls believes that it is easy to talk to girls. The key
to getting better is realizing the FACT that talking to girls is EASY, not
hard. Guys think that they don’t have enough routines and cool stuff to say,
and amog lines, and LMR lines and stuff. So they don’t do anything when they
see a girl. When before, if they hadn’t known all this ****, they would have
just walked up and said hi. And it would have been fine. So they study more,
which just makes them realize how much they still don’t know, which makes it
seem even harder. This is why so many guys don’t sarge and don’t ever get good.
THE REAL PROBLEM = LACK OF SOCIALIZATION
Cool people spend a lot of time socializing. Imagine a typical cool guy. By the
time he is in college. This guy has had thousands of conversations with other
people. He has had thousands of conversations with girls. Not necessarily
hitting on them. Just interacting with them and learning how to be cool and
normal. He has learned social skills just by shear volume of interaction. He
isn't scared to talk to girl because he does it all the time.
This isn't rocket science. You talk to people, you learn social skills. Period.
If you are good at talking to people, you won’t be scared to talk to people. If
you have social skills and aren’t scared to talk to people, you will
automatically come across confident and cool and normal.
Nerds don’t socialize that much. Or they socialize with other nerdy people,
which just further solidifies their nerd status. They are scared to talk to
girls because they don’t ever do it.
Guys don’t realize that its lack of socialization that is the key problem. You
are not going to fix the problem with more time on the computer reading ASF. So
much time alone is why you have the problem in the first place. You fix the
problem by getting out of the house and socializing.
Yes, going out and running routines, and openers, and doing newbie missions
WILL WORK. You are socializing and getting social experience quickly. BUT you
will also be getting a lot of weird/negative responses from girls. This makes
guys give up very quickly when they don’t get instant results. So the question
is – ARE GUYS ACTUALLY GOING OUT AND SARGING?
Not many
How many people actually run 3000 sets??? Not many
Guys aren’t fixing the real problem, LACK OF SOCIALIZATION. So they just go
back to being nerds or they become permanent KJ’s. This is why ASF isn’t
producing very many pua’s.
SOLUTION:
If you realize that you could learn all this stuff the easy natural way, by
socializing with cool people, and sprinkling in the ASF techniques on the side,
it would be a lot easier and we would see more guys getting good.
Realize that all you have to do to attract girls is to get social
calibration/experience, and some self-esteem and confidence so that you can be
COOL, and act NORMAL around girls. (read tylerdurden’s last 200 posts)
The reason guys can’t talk to girls is because they are low self-esteem. Once
you get some self-esteem, it almost seems natural. Like, not only is it not
hard to talk to girls without being nervous, it starts to feel like it is just
the natural thing to do. It is natural for this money guy (yourself) to go talk
to the hot ass girl in the room. It just seems right.
NEW PLAN:
PART 1 - Fix appearance:
Have you seen a girl that has a hot ass body, but a mediocre face (a
butterface)? But you would still **** the **** out of her anyway because of her
body, right?
Well, there is no reason why anyone can’t have a good looking body. The
difference between hot people and ugly people is their beliefs about
themselves. Ugly people are those who think they are ugly and cant do anything
about it so they don’t even try. Hot people are those who think they are hot,
and make sure they stay that way.
Take ANY ugly girl. Put her on a vigorous exercise/diet program to get a
fit/firm/thin body, get her a nice tan, get her a good makeup job, give her a
sexy hairstyle, and sexy cloths on her. Teach her to act/walk/talk like a hot
girl. And you now have a girl who is a hot girl. Or at least 4 points (1-10
scale) hotter than she was before, which is the difference between a common HB6
and a HB10, or an ugly 5 and a hot HB9. An HB1 is only an HB1 because she is
fat. Something she can do something about. (yes she can, listen to tony
robbins)
OR
Take any pretty girl. Lose the makeup, the tan, the cloths, the hair style, the
stuckup attitude, and let her eat whatever she wants and get fat, and she will
lose 4 points at least. Do a search “celeb’s without makeup” on the net if you
don’t believe me. And for guys who don’t have hot girls in their social circle,
you don’t get to see them on regular days, when they aren’t all prettied up at
the club. If you get hot girls in your social circle, you will seem them on
their bad days, when they just got out of bed, etc. It’s obvious that they are
just average people who simply take care of themselves and know how to dress up
and look hot.
A person’s looks have more to do with their beliefs about themselves than
anything else
(Listen to tony robbins for more on this)
Date Posted: 2005/04/23 01:35:00 PM EDT
Author: FratGuy <unknown email address>
Subject: HOW TO GET LAID - THE NEW PLAN
Im going to post something ive realized in the last few months. And what i
think the solution is. im not dogging on ASF, just poiting out some things.
WHY ASF CAN BE MISLEADING:
When a guy gets on ASF and reads all this lingo, it helps him understand a lot.
But it also just further confuses him. It makes getting laid seem even harder
than before. And it makes him even more scared of talking to girls. Now he
thinks it is really hard.
A guy who is good with girls believes that it is easy to talk to girls. The key
to getting better is realizing the FACT that talking to girls is EASY, not
hard. Guys think that they don’t have enough routines and cool stuff to say,
and amog lines, and LMR lines and stuff. So they don’t do anything when they
see a girl. When before, if they hadn’t known all this ****, they would have
just walked up and said hi. And it would have been fine. So they study more,
which just makes them realize how much they still don’t know, which makes it
seem even harder. This is why so many guys don’t sarge and don’t ever get good.
THE REAL PROBLEM = LACK OF SOCIALIZATION
Cool people spend a lot of time socializing. Imagine a typical cool guy. By the
time he is in college. This guy has had thousands of conversations with other
people. He has had thousands of conversations with girls. Not necessarily
hitting on them. Just interacting with them and learning how to be cool and
normal. He has learned social skills just by shear volume of interaction. He
isn't scared to talk to girl because he does it all the time.
This isn't rocket science. You talk to people, you learn social skills. Period.
If you are good at talking to people, you won’t be scared to talk to people. If
you have social skills and aren’t scared to talk to people, you will
automatically come across confident and cool and normal.
Nerds don’t socialize that much. Or they socialize with other nerdy people,
which just further solidifies their nerd status. They are scared to talk to
girls because they don’t ever do it.
Guys don’t realize that its lack of socialization that is the key problem. You
are not going to fix the problem with more time on the computer reading ASF. So
much time alone is why you have the problem in the first place. You fix the
problem by getting out of the house and socializing.
Yes, going out and running routines, and openers, and doing newbie missions
WILL WORK. You are socializing and getting social experience quickly. BUT you
will also be getting a lot of weird/negative responses from girls. This makes
guys give up very quickly when they don’t get instant results. So the question
is – ARE GUYS ACTUALLY GOING OUT AND SARGING?
Not many
How many people actually run 3000 sets??? Not many
Guys aren’t fixing the real problem, LACK OF SOCIALIZATION. So they just go
back to being nerds or they become permanent KJ’s. This is why ASF isn’t
producing very many pua’s.
SOLUTION:
If you realize that you could learn all this stuff the easy natural way, by
socializing with cool people, and sprinkling in the ASF techniques on the side,
it would be a lot easier and we would see more guys getting good.
Realize that all you have to do to attract girls is to get social
calibration/experience, and some self-esteem and confidence so that you can be
COOL, and act NORMAL around girls. (read tylerdurden’s last 200 posts)
The reason guys can’t talk to girls is because they are low self-esteem. Once
you get some self-esteem, it almost seems natural. Like, not only is it not
hard to talk to girls without being nervous, it starts to feel like it is just
the natural thing to do. It is natural for this money guy (yourself) to go talk
to the hot ass girl in the room. It just seems right.
NEW PLAN:
PART 1 - Fix appearance:
Have you seen a girl that has a hot ass body, but a mediocre face (a
butterface)? But you would still **** the **** out of her anyway because of her
body, right?
Well, there is no reason why anyone can’t have a good looking body. The
difference between hot people and ugly people is their beliefs about
themselves. Ugly people are those who think they are ugly and cant do anything
about it so they don’t even try. Hot people are those who think they are hot,
and make sure they stay that way.
Take ANY ugly girl. Put her on a vigorous exercise/diet program to get a
fit/firm/thin body, get her a nice tan, get her a good makeup job, give her a
sexy hairstyle, and sexy cloths on her. Teach her to act/walk/talk like a hot
girl. And you now have a girl who is a hot girl. Or at least 4 points (1-10
scale) hotter than she was before, which is the difference between a common HB6
and a HB10, or an ugly 5 and a hot HB9. An HB1 is only an HB1 because she is
fat. Something she can do something about. (yes she can, listen to tony
robbins)
OR
Take any pretty girl. Lose the makeup, the tan, the cloths, the hair style, the
stuckup attitude, and let her eat whatever she wants and get fat, and she will
lose 4 points at least. Do a search “celeb’s without makeup” on the net if you
don’t believe me. And for guys who don’t have hot girls in their social circle,
you don’t get to see them on regular days, when they aren’t all prettied up at
the club. If you get hot girls in your social circle, you will seem them on
their bad days, when they just got out of bed, etc. It’s obvious that they are
just average people who simply take care of themselves and know how to dress up
and look hot.
A person’s looks have more to do with their beliefs about themselves than
anything else
(Listen to tony robbins for more on this)
