Hello,
During my NC with my ex i try to improve as a man and improve my lifestyle. focus on myself. but to addition to that i started talking to girls and no wonder they keep pulling their sh1t in front of me . so i just wanted to give you example of the situations i went with girls and how i handle it. i will appreciate if you could point where i got wrong.
1. A girl from Facebook- i have a friend on facebook so there was a girl there i thought she looks nice so i sent her a msg... we started talking until the point i told her i shifted to gear one now i need to shift to gear two , lets do it together. she said i am charming and have a great attidute but she is stuck on some guy. she asked me if i could wait couple of days? i said no. i can't wait for you to decide if i am the second good thing to go for. bye bye.
2. second girl on facebook - same thing but she gave me her number, called after two days , she didnt answer. couple of hours later i sent her a text saying its Joe and blah blah.. next day she answered she's in vacation for a couple of days. wrote , great and that's it. no response from her.
3. Another chick i talked on Facebook- got her number as well , called her - no response , didnt pay too much attention to it moved on. two days after that she send me a text , can i call? couple hours later i responded yes. she called and we talked for 20 min. i told her i want to meet her on Tuwsday , (the call was on sunday) she said lets talk on Tuesday. there was a big storm so it got delayed. On Thursday i called. she didn't picked up. no response from her.
4. another girl from Facebook, shows high interest- gave me her number. but Thursday i called she told me she was with her girl friend talking - she asked if she could call me later , said no problem. she didnt'. next day she semt a lame good morning text. responded . Yesterday i called her again- she told me she was with her sister and she will call me again. guess again? 10 mins ago she called me.
Now- usually the old me would get upset and try to understand what the fvck is going on, now? she didn't call? ok no harm move on do your stuff. try to understand why she didn't call? who cares?
I just want to understand what i did wrong so i could do better. i'm in a journey now to get better in my mind , body , and social so i need my brothers here to help me.
Joe.
During my NC with my ex i try to improve as a man and improve my lifestyle. focus on myself. but to addition to that i started talking to girls and no wonder they keep pulling their sh1t in front of me . so i just wanted to give you example of the situations i went with girls and how i handle it. i will appreciate if you could point where i got wrong.
1. A girl from Facebook- i have a friend on facebook so there was a girl there i thought she looks nice so i sent her a msg... we started talking until the point i told her i shifted to gear one now i need to shift to gear two , lets do it together. she said i am charming and have a great attidute but she is stuck on some guy. she asked me if i could wait couple of days? i said no. i can't wait for you to decide if i am the second good thing to go for. bye bye.
2. second girl on facebook - same thing but she gave me her number, called after two days , she didnt answer. couple of hours later i sent her a text saying its Joe and blah blah.. next day she answered she's in vacation for a couple of days. wrote , great and that's it. no response from her.
3. Another chick i talked on Facebook- got her number as well , called her - no response , didnt pay too much attention to it moved on. two days after that she send me a text , can i call? couple hours later i responded yes. she called and we talked for 20 min. i told her i want to meet her on Tuwsday , (the call was on sunday) she said lets talk on Tuesday. there was a big storm so it got delayed. On Thursday i called. she didn't picked up. no response from her.
4. another girl from Facebook, shows high interest- gave me her number. but Thursday i called she told me she was with her girl friend talking - she asked if she could call me later , said no problem. she didnt'. next day she semt a lame good morning text. responded . Yesterday i called her again- she told me she was with her sister and she will call me again. guess again? 10 mins ago she called me.
Now- usually the old me would get upset and try to understand what the fvck is going on, now? she didn't call? ok no harm move on do your stuff. try to understand why she didn't call? who cares?
I just want to understand what i did wrong so i could do better. i'm in a journey now to get better in my mind , body , and social so i need my brothers here to help me.
Joe.