Folks, I was wondering if in general, there might be some indirect signs, green lights and clues that women in gyms who may be attracted to certain guys tend to do around them? I had experiences in the past with two women at my gym early last summer who were very clearly interested in me and showed me obvious signals in every way except for coming up and talking to me directly. However, because I was trying to play the game by first of all acting uninterested or as if I didn't notice them, I spent a bit too much time acting that way than was necessary. Of course, when I was finally ready to make my move on both of them I never saw either of those two women again and I deeply regretted it.
I seem to be facing a similar situation at the moment as well, but I'm not exactly sure in this case because it is a lot more complicated than my previous experience. This also involves two women. One of them has been working out at my gym for a while. She's average height and has these really unbelievable long, firm and athletic legs that would make you lust in your eyes as soon as you see them. She walks very coordinated and loves to wear short, tight black shorts all the time to show off her legs and she runs on the treadmill like crazy. In the past few days and week and a half, I've noticed that when I walk past her, she from time to time gives me this straight look in my eyes as if to suggest that she's noticed me. Keep in mind that this particular woman does give off a very arrogant sort of vibe, seldom smiles around guys and rarely talks to them. But when she sees me around her, she seems to tone down that stuff quite a bit.
Today, one of the personal trainers was trying to engage her in conversation but seemed to feel intimidated to make an actual move on her. He was whispering to one of his male friends to check out her ass and her legs when she was working on one of the leg machines. She noticed it and I could see that she felt very uncomfortable. I happened to be working out right next to that area. Before I left the gym, I noticed that each time I walked past her, if she weren't looking at me, she would turn around and watch me walk by, and even from a distance, I think I've noticed her looking at me quite a few times. I'm quite an observant person. This same woman, as far as I could remember, often didn't pay any attention to me in the past...she's always carried herself in the gym as one of those "I know I'm hot" kind of women.
The second woman is a tall, blonde who just joined about a month and a half ago, she loves to wear spandex, but I could tell in her case that her ass is extremely big and of course, the personal trainers are lining up to talk to her and get her to work out with them and several men have noticed her and are trying to talk to her. This particular one is a bit harder to decipher than the previous one I mentioned above because she just loves the attention she gets from men. She's always walking around in the gym holding a bottle of water in her right hand while her ass is shaking as she shows it off. I think I've kinda noticed her looking at me from a distance as well. Sometimes when she sees me working out on a particular machine, she will act as if she were about to use the one next to me and then walk past me or across from me, as if to make me notice her as well. Before she left the gym today, she came all the way from a distance and to my area and then walked past me before leaving.
The interesting thing with this second woman is that she seems to love having men who've noticed her come up and talk to her and then shoot them down. So far, she's been carrying herself around the gym as if as a challenge to see who would have the guts to hit on her. From the way she carries herself, I can tell she probably gets hit on a lot. I noticed one guy at the gym trying to get her to join him in his workout today. Of course, she often wears the ear pieces. She took them off, gave him a look, smiled and then put them back on and continued working out. And when she was leaving the gym, I noticed the guy in question looking at her from a distance, checking out her ass, etc. My strategy with this particular woman is to get her to notice me first (maybe she has) and to not present myself toward her as just one of the many guys at the gym who are so eager to talk to her right now. At the same time, if she's noticed me, I can't wait too long and would have to take a chance and make a move if I ever have an opportunity to do so.
I don't know...perhaps some of the women at my gym might appreciate the fact that when I'm there, I'm very focused on working out as hard enough as possible and I don't just stand there looking at every woman with spandex who walks by or make myself cheap. It appears as if I seem to be a mystery to some of them or something.
I seem to be facing a similar situation at the moment as well, but I'm not exactly sure in this case because it is a lot more complicated than my previous experience. This also involves two women. One of them has been working out at my gym for a while. She's average height and has these really unbelievable long, firm and athletic legs that would make you lust in your eyes as soon as you see them. She walks very coordinated and loves to wear short, tight black shorts all the time to show off her legs and she runs on the treadmill like crazy. In the past few days and week and a half, I've noticed that when I walk past her, she from time to time gives me this straight look in my eyes as if to suggest that she's noticed me. Keep in mind that this particular woman does give off a very arrogant sort of vibe, seldom smiles around guys and rarely talks to them. But when she sees me around her, she seems to tone down that stuff quite a bit.
Today, one of the personal trainers was trying to engage her in conversation but seemed to feel intimidated to make an actual move on her. He was whispering to one of his male friends to check out her ass and her legs when she was working on one of the leg machines. She noticed it and I could see that she felt very uncomfortable. I happened to be working out right next to that area. Before I left the gym, I noticed that each time I walked past her, if she weren't looking at me, she would turn around and watch me walk by, and even from a distance, I think I've noticed her looking at me quite a few times. I'm quite an observant person. This same woman, as far as I could remember, often didn't pay any attention to me in the past...she's always carried herself in the gym as one of those "I know I'm hot" kind of women.
The second woman is a tall, blonde who just joined about a month and a half ago, she loves to wear spandex, but I could tell in her case that her ass is extremely big and of course, the personal trainers are lining up to talk to her and get her to work out with them and several men have noticed her and are trying to talk to her. This particular one is a bit harder to decipher than the previous one I mentioned above because she just loves the attention she gets from men. She's always walking around in the gym holding a bottle of water in her right hand while her ass is shaking as she shows it off. I think I've kinda noticed her looking at me from a distance as well. Sometimes when she sees me working out on a particular machine, she will act as if she were about to use the one next to me and then walk past me or across from me, as if to make me notice her as well. Before she left the gym today, she came all the way from a distance and to my area and then walked past me before leaving.
The interesting thing with this second woman is that she seems to love having men who've noticed her come up and talk to her and then shoot them down. So far, she's been carrying herself around the gym as if as a challenge to see who would have the guts to hit on her. From the way she carries herself, I can tell she probably gets hit on a lot. I noticed one guy at the gym trying to get her to join him in his workout today. Of course, she often wears the ear pieces. She took them off, gave him a look, smiled and then put them back on and continued working out. And when she was leaving the gym, I noticed the guy in question looking at her from a distance, checking out her ass, etc. My strategy with this particular woman is to get her to notice me first (maybe she has) and to not present myself toward her as just one of the many guys at the gym who are so eager to talk to her right now. At the same time, if she's noticed me, I can't wait too long and would have to take a chance and make a move if I ever have an opportunity to do so.
I don't know...perhaps some of the women at my gym might appreciate the fact that when I'm there, I'm very focused on working out as hard enough as possible and I don't just stand there looking at every woman with spandex who walks by or make myself cheap. It appears as if I seem to be a mystery to some of them or something.