Oh yes, insecurity is still a big problem for me. I am lacking some serious self confidence, that has been a big problem for me. I haven't even begun. I mean, the post on mall cold approaching, seeing myself do that seems tough. I mean, I need to learn how to do it without coming off as creepy, which is what I want to avoid. I basically cold approach people all day at my job, so you would think it would come natrually. I have been reading the materials on this site, and I seem to be lacking self confidence/esteem, charm, ****yness, I am not often a ****y person. One thing I have been asking is why do we even need this whole process? I mean, what happened in soceity to where we have this neg,tease,disqualify,ignore, etc? What ever happened to just dating and stuff? I really don't go out that often, and don't have much of a social life, which has been a problem as well.
I also ask this cause there is this girl I met through work who I have a crush on. I haven't shown it in any way, but she must know I kinda like her? we have gone out a few times, in groups mostly, and it wasn't like any one of us was struggling to be in control. Anyways, this girl has always been incredibly sweet to me, not to mention she's an 8 I would say. I have her number, and am a bit nervous.