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[daygameguy]

I'm not a nice guy, as described as the validation seeking,ass kissing, human doormat type, I'm more a regular guy. As for alpha, it seems some guys already are. you either are or not.

I have trouble valuing myself, I am trying to get over it. I am trying to figure out how too.

I am trying to work up the action/initiative to aproach and get in the field.

It's like I am trying to find that fine tuned way of going for it.

You are not a regular guy. If you were a regular guy, you would have taken my advice. I am not here to act as a guru. When I truly feel like helping someone, I give my most heartfelt advice.

Get out of your head, you cannot do a perfect approach the first time. you need to take it inch by inch, small chunks at a time.

I am not going to argue or motivate you any further. Maybe no one else will either. YOU are the ONLY person that can help yourself right now.

 

[ItsOnNow]

I know. I have been trying to help myself. But something is and has been holding me back. I haven't started, even since I first found this site years ago, to do it all little by little and improve myself. That's why I feel so behind.

 

[TheEdgeOf]

Imagine her in her underwear... wait...

 

[Kerpal]

Just remember that in 5 years she'll be fat and ugly with 3 kids.

Seriously, in 5 years nobody is going to give a **** about the hottest girl at the club who is getting all the attention.