wataf said:
i know i sound like the biggest loser ever the other problem is i havnt been layed in like 2 years and this girl knows it so she knows i dont really have any other girls in my life now.... the thing is 2 she always phones me wanting to hang out and i acuatly enjoy hanging out with her because i only have a few close friends..
You see that part of your post I put in bold? You said that this girl knows you haven't been with any other girl in a long time. And she uses this knowledge against you. Answer me this:How does it make you feel knowing you've in a sense been with this girl for over three years,and you haven't been intimate with her in all that time,but just out of nowhere,she slept with three guys (and is working on a fourth)just like that? I know it tears you up inside. I don't even know you,and even I know this. So you know this girl who you've been with for 3 years know it as well. Does she care? Of course not.
To her,she's the only girl in your life. She knows you don't have anybody elseon the radar right now,therefore,she takes you for granted. She can walk over,and fool around with other guy right in front of your face,and be PROUD about it. Why not? What are you going to do about it? What,go and find another girl? Yeah,right. She knows that she's the only woman in your life,so she can do whatever she wants because she knows once she's through running around with the other 5 or 6 guys,you'll still be there waiting for. Can you blame her? Why wouldn't she think this? You've already been there for 3 years. All she's doing is what YOU'VE allowed her to do.
All I can do is repeat what I said in my 1st post. You'll just have to put up with this nonsense until enough time (and guys) passes by until you look back at the past 10 years and realize how much time you've lost over someone who could care less about you.