MacAvoy said:
Gents, here's my problem. I went through a phase when I was around 26-30 where I didn't get involved in relationships, I just had a bunch of ONS and FB's. As I had no interest in them for anything more than fufilling my needs, I never bothered to kiss them much. I think I heard a story back then about how prostitutes never kiss so that its not personal and remains professional, so I incorporated that into my life, not wanting to develop anything with these skanks.
As a result, I got cold at kissing and am not very passionate. When I was in my LTR last year, kissing was never big, she was never into it either, she primarily wanted closed mouth kisses.
How can I improve my kissing game?
I am going to give you my killer kissing tips:
Ok kissing.
Ideally you have built up some sexual tension or comfort.
Ok sexual tension kissing.
You know when your both hot and horney.
When you do this, just let the power of the moment take over.
You will be obosrbed by the passion of the moment and when you lips connect there is like some strange force that makes the kiss almost shared and syncronized.
You will be suprised how true the above statement is.
I have kissed a hell of a lot of girls and in the hight of passion (turned on) it just comes natural, very natural, there is no need to rehearse it.
Now there is another type of killer kiss:
The comfort one.
this is for those times you invite her back, buy a take away, get her to cuddle upto you (women love to cuddle, never ever forget this).
Drink wine, let her choose her own.
Later in the night has you both are relaxed from good food, a movie, wine and her resting against you.
At this stage i play with her hair a little, if a women lets you do this, you can virtually play with any part of her, they wont let you mess there hair up.
Playing with there hair is very powerful its like the nuclear KINO BOMB.
Then work your way to her breasts and have a nice feel and play.
Eventually it will come to kissing.
this form of kissing is about comfort and sexual but not hungry hormey sex, this is nice kissing, which turns into horney kissing.
you kiss her on her lips, smooch with her and at the same time play with her hair at the side of her cheeks, in a nice comfortable sexual manner, or hold her face and press it gently to yours.
Eventually it may come to tongues, just do it has she would.
In conclusion:
I find it best to let the WOMEN lead, that way with this rule you can kiss any women.
Sexual horny kissing comes natural dont worry about it.
normal confort, kissing is just that a slow smooch, until you lead her by the hand to your bedroom.
NEVER EVER worry about messing up a kiss, NEVER excuse yourself or say 'sorry' instead laugh it off and try again when your comfortable.
Kissing is not direct science sometimes it works sometimes not, even when you date a women for a long time the kisses can be out of sync, so dont worry about it with a new date, it will go into sync as your primitive drives take over.
TRUST me on this.
) for the first time I typically imitate what they do (style) in order to build raport and establish comfort. Usually, the first kisses suck. But after a short while, when the woman is comfortable with the act, I start leading, just like in dancing. 
