ChrizZ said:
When I got bigger, less chicks approached me. I´m not really big, just muscular ( 6ft 1 , 185 pds ). Does getting bigger intimidate chicks?
Ditto, man!
I had a car accident last year and I really was phucked up. When I was released from the hospital, I weighed a whopping 128lbs!! Due to my injuries (neck, rib, organs, you name it) I could not lift a weight until about 6 months after my accident.
I pretty much weighed 130ish for about 6 months and I received some blatant eye contact/IOI's. About 7 months later, I'm not buff by any stretch of the imagination, but I weigh about 150 now (I am NOT tall FYI). I have increased definition and mass and it's very apparent in my physique but now I feel less noticeable to women than I did back when I was scraping 130lbs.
Two things, my theory:
1) You can't expect too much. The more you expect, the easier your disappiontment will be. Maybe some guys get it, but most of us will
not have women swooning over us just cause we have a solid build.
2) Chicks are subtle creatures and even if they are impressed or take note of your bod, they won't tell you or line up to touch your awsome ass! You might get some comments from chicks you know (ie, one female acquaintance told me I had tits, jokingly, referring to my blossoming pecs, and another said she had a dream I was taking steroids, and giggled, then asked if it was just a dream). Subtle female crap like that. But don't expect women's jaws to drop just cause you are bulking up.
Some lucky guys will argue with me, tell you how they get followed by salivating women throughout the day. That is the exception, not the rule.
