jaybeezi
Don Juan
I've been seeing my GF for about 3 months (we've known eachother over a year) and the other day we had this conversation
GF: My sister asked me to come visit her in NY but I don't really like it there.
JB: Are you going to go?
GF: I don't know, I haven't decided.
JB: You should go, how long would you be gone for? 1 week, 2 weeks?
GF: A couple of months, 2-3, but maybe longer
JB: Ok you shouldn't go lol
We talked about it more 2 days later and she said she was going. It was obvious I didn't want her to go, not for that long anyway. And she said that if I didn't want her to go she wouldn't...
She hasn't seen most of them in years, and she's only been there once about 6 years ago. She acts like 3 months isn't a long time for her to be gone but it's about how long we've been together, just seems like a long break this early in a relationship, and I don't want anything to happen cause things are going really well.
I don't want her to go for 3 months... but I really don't want to be the guy that holds her back from doing the things she wants to do. I feel like saying "don't go" will stay around for awhile, and probably not be a good thing for us.
But she's got 6 months left of school that she's going to postpone to go... Which I don't think is a good idea, especially considering she REALLY wants to move A.S.A.P. and this would just delay it. We're in a LDR already and only see eachother on the weekends, this summer we were supposed to spend more time together.... I don't know.
GF: My sister asked me to come visit her in NY but I don't really like it there.
JB: Are you going to go?
GF: I don't know, I haven't decided.
JB: You should go, how long would you be gone for? 1 week, 2 weeks?
GF: A couple of months, 2-3, but maybe longer
JB: Ok you shouldn't go lol
We talked about it more 2 days later and she said she was going. It was obvious I didn't want her to go, not for that long anyway. And she said that if I didn't want her to go she wouldn't...
She hasn't seen most of them in years, and she's only been there once about 6 years ago. She acts like 3 months isn't a long time for her to be gone but it's about how long we've been together, just seems like a long break this early in a relationship, and I don't want anything to happen cause things are going really well.
I don't want her to go for 3 months... but I really don't want to be the guy that holds her back from doing the things she wants to do. I feel like saying "don't go" will stay around for awhile, and probably not be a good thing for us.
But she's got 6 months left of school that she's going to postpone to go... Which I don't think is a good idea, especially considering she REALLY wants to move A.S.A.P. and this would just delay it. We're in a LDR already and only see eachother on the weekends, this summer we were supposed to spend more time together.... I don't know.