Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
Man this world is so f*cked up...I know I'm one of the lucky few and trying to see the world in a "half full" perspective but there are some people who are left behind and stuck in a rut.. I know so many girls who have been raped by the scum of the earth. It hurts me how some of them are still affected even after so many years after the incident. It's none of my business or problem but it canes my heart knowing it. I've also been a witness to many sexual abuse on other people hence I still have issues now.
My ex confessed to me that she was raped when she was only 11 and DAMN didn't that crush me. Sleepless nights, indecisiveness, awkwardness, anger and later on seemed like I felt her pain. (That was back in the AFC days of course).
I know other girls who suffered the same ordeal and they have seem to just lose self respect, confidence, self esteem and the drive for life. I know a girl who is only 16 yet shes slept with over 19 guys and 3 girls. Her excuse is that she uses sex so boys would like her. Another one uses her anger to be successful yet uses sex only for her raw sexual desires, not for intimacy, connection, love and all that other stuff. Porn actresses, strippers and other sex workers seem to have this similar kind of dark pasts.
I can help but think about my ex's past, I still like her very much and pretty much the only girl I've ever made a true connection with (I've been with a lot of other girls tho). I would like to get together with her later on in the future if our paths crosses once again (If not, no sweat I've got others).
The main question is, once a girls been raped is that a red flag signal to stay away from her? I kinda dont want to play the hero cos all that will do is absorb all the pain she has suffered (as i have in the past, it only f*cked me up worst). Even if a girls got a lot of personality, great, hot and everything you could ask, once you find out she has that kind of past, should I avoid all that pain and bail out? Are these girls simply tainted? I've got a lot of questions but I'll post them later on.
Lads please put your experiences, knowledge and other input on this issue.
My ex confessed to me that she was raped when she was only 11 and DAMN didn't that crush me. Sleepless nights, indecisiveness, awkwardness, anger and later on seemed like I felt her pain. (That was back in the AFC days of course).
I know other girls who suffered the same ordeal and they have seem to just lose self respect, confidence, self esteem and the drive for life. I know a girl who is only 16 yet shes slept with over 19 guys and 3 girls. Her excuse is that she uses sex so boys would like her. Another one uses her anger to be successful yet uses sex only for her raw sexual desires, not for intimacy, connection, love and all that other stuff. Porn actresses, strippers and other sex workers seem to have this similar kind of dark pasts.
I can help but think about my ex's past, I still like her very much and pretty much the only girl I've ever made a true connection with (I've been with a lot of other girls tho). I would like to get together with her later on in the future if our paths crosses once again (If not, no sweat I've got others).
The main question is, once a girls been raped is that a red flag signal to stay away from her? I kinda dont want to play the hero cos all that will do is absorb all the pain she has suffered (as i have in the past, it only f*cked me up worst). Even if a girls got a lot of personality, great, hot and everything you could ask, once you find out she has that kind of past, should I avoid all that pain and bail out? Are these girls simply tainted? I've got a lot of questions but I'll post them later on.
Lads please put your experiences, knowledge and other input on this issue.