So I just got out of a 2.5 year relationship.
I SUCK at cold approaching. In fact, I haven't even gotten to the approaching part. This includes any sort of interaction: at clubs, bars, on the bus, walking down the street, ANYTHING.
Any time I am introduced to a girl through a group of friends or something, it's fine. I have no problem interacting with girls, or people in general. In fact, I like to think of myself as pretty interesting, and fun to be around.
But a really bad flaw is the fact that I can't approach girls at random in the settings that I described (bar, bus, clubs, etc).
How do you guys get the nerve to eventually just go up to a girl and talk to her?
Whenever I catch a girl looking at me or something, I give a quick smile or glance, and then I try too hard to think of something to say. I start thinking "what the hell am I going to say to her to start a conversation?" Then I start psyching myself out and subconsciously find excuses not to talk to her.
HOW THE HELL DO I GET PAST THIS?
I SUCK at cold approaching. In fact, I haven't even gotten to the approaching part. This includes any sort of interaction: at clubs, bars, on the bus, walking down the street, ANYTHING.
Any time I am introduced to a girl through a group of friends or something, it's fine. I have no problem interacting with girls, or people in general. In fact, I like to think of myself as pretty interesting, and fun to be around.
But a really bad flaw is the fact that I can't approach girls at random in the settings that I described (bar, bus, clubs, etc).
How do you guys get the nerve to eventually just go up to a girl and talk to her?
Whenever I catch a girl looking at me or something, I give a quick smile or glance, and then I try too hard to think of something to say. I start thinking "what the hell am I going to say to her to start a conversation?" Then I start psyching myself out and subconsciously find excuses not to talk to her.
HOW THE HELL DO I GET PAST THIS?