working out
I've been all sorts of sizes before. I compete in bodybuilding, so I use to be really small and lean (not to much muscle), I've been bulky (big, not too cut), lean muscular, and ripped to shreds huge.
Honest to God, it truly does not matter how muscular you are. However, I don't believe that there are any negatives to being muscular when it comes to dealing with women, only positives. The thing is that it all lies in the womans perspective. Some girls think the definition of "fit" is a 150 pound man with a ripped up stomach, while others think of "fit as a heavier guy with ripped up arms, chest, and shoulders, however doesnt have as ripped up as a stomach.
Truth be told though that when it comes down to it doesn't matter. As far as approaching women, the only time a muscular guy has an advantage approaching a woman would be at a beach or persay the gym. I don't even think face matters all to much, the first thing that matters is how you come off. Your level of confidence. Girls rather be charmed by a funny joke, then stare at the ripped lateral region of my upper back.
I do urge any of you to start hitting the gym, because in turn it boosts your own levels of confidence. Sure you might see a meathead packing on the plates which makes you feel insecure at the gym, but you will find that after you walk out the door that you feel good abuot using your body. I think having a good physique comes in hand in the bedroom. There are other ways to satisfy a chic, but if they have something nice to look at while your plowing the hell out of them it could only help.
Pe@ce The Nature Boy