WC2
Master Don Juan
There are several phases in life when a man potentially grows out of his 'best buds' or just has a new attitude towards life. At least for me.
The first time I truly out grew my friends was when I got to college. It was an opportunity to recreate yourself and associate with whoever you wanted to and they would be none the wiser to who you really were.
I truly thought my friends from college would be my best friends all my life thru thick and thin. And I had a lot of them.
However something odd has happened over the past year or so.. I am beginning to want to recreate myself again, the same way I did when I left for college. I guess our interests just don't align any more.
Call me crazy, but I'm in my mid to late twenties now and I am becoming more and more career motivated. I find myself spending time during the weekends improving my craft and brainstorming business ideas while my buds are busy getting hammered at the local bars. It's becoming less and less desirable to go 'hunting' for women all the time. I would rather meet women through my business channels.. Women who aren't spilling vodka tonics all over their tits.
Can I get some feedback here? Is this odd? Apparently the majority of my buds are still stuck in their college frat persona where if you don't drink your face off on a Thursday, you're a total pu$$y. Scuse me bro.. Sorry I have to wake up at 6am to take work semi seriously tomorrow!
Most of all its becoming apparent that these guys who were my bros thru thick and thin, don't have expectations in life as high as mine. I want to be in control of my life before I'm 40. I want to have the freedom to be able to retire for a few years to explore the world while I'm still young. I want to surround myself with others like this.
So again, can anyone level with me on this one?
The first time I truly out grew my friends was when I got to college. It was an opportunity to recreate yourself and associate with whoever you wanted to and they would be none the wiser to who you really were.
I truly thought my friends from college would be my best friends all my life thru thick and thin. And I had a lot of them.
However something odd has happened over the past year or so.. I am beginning to want to recreate myself again, the same way I did when I left for college. I guess our interests just don't align any more.
Call me crazy, but I'm in my mid to late twenties now and I am becoming more and more career motivated. I find myself spending time during the weekends improving my craft and brainstorming business ideas while my buds are busy getting hammered at the local bars. It's becoming less and less desirable to go 'hunting' for women all the time. I would rather meet women through my business channels.. Women who aren't spilling vodka tonics all over their tits.
Can I get some feedback here? Is this odd? Apparently the majority of my buds are still stuck in their college frat persona where if you don't drink your face off on a Thursday, you're a total pu$$y. Scuse me bro.. Sorry I have to wake up at 6am to take work semi seriously tomorrow!
Most of all its becoming apparent that these guys who were my bros thru thick and thin, don't have expectations in life as high as mine. I want to be in control of my life before I'm 40. I want to have the freedom to be able to retire for a few years to explore the world while I'm still young. I want to surround myself with others like this.
So again, can anyone level with me on this one?