but the real answer is : NO. While ****y and funny is okay to use for average looking guys, it has a bad effect on good looking, alpha-by-default guys.
Badboy explains in his newsletter why :
Badboy Lifestyle, Vol. 4
Into Inner Game
While talking with lot of guys in last 6 months, on workshops, and hanging out with guys from community, I found out one really funny thing. Lots of guys ****ed up their game while they tried to implement massive C&F into their game.
I met at leats 20 guys with this problem so far, and there are probably lots of more guys, for who C&F simply doesn't work, I decided to write about this in this month article.
I know few good looking guys, who found this community, and started doing massive C&F, and they totally ****ed up their success with girls..
While writing this, I am thinking about where problem is hidden.
We all know that C&F is really good tool for getting Attraction. But we also know that it doesnt works for some guys (good-looking guys for example), some guys feel incongurant while doing it. And that is MAIN problem here.
1)Being INCONGURANT
2)Overdoing it (CALIBRATION)
1)In order to really understand this problem, first you must understand how C&F works, and why it works! Lets start from biggining. PUA comes to girl, and he starts to tease her, ballbust, push-pull... C&F comments, etc etc.. you name it. Now, let me ask you, what this PUA is subcomminicating to her?? What does he convay with it?
-I am THE PRIZE
-I DONT GIVE A ****
-I am ALPHA
-I am NOT NEEDY
-I am COOL
-You need me, not other way around
Now, as this is exactly what does she wants in Mr. Perfect, she start feeling attraction to PUA, as he conveys all those things. Works perfect.
But in same time, you can **** up your game while doing it.
Example 2: Really good looking guy(HOT), Alpha bodylanguage... lets call him PUA2. Even bofore he comes to girl, PUA2 conveys that:
-He is THE PRIZE
-He DOESNT GIVE A ****
-He is ALPHA
-He is NOT NEEDY
-He is COOL
-She needs him, not other way around
PUA2 gets attraction, even before he starts talking with her... the girl is going to show Indication of Interest, she is going to bump accidently into him, she is going to give solid Eye contacts, she is going to start to
play with her hair,bite lips... etc.
All those trademarks of interest we know.
Now, the problem starts when this PUA2 start using C&F, now, real problem starts... You can't be aware of this, if you don't feel subcommunication between you and woman.
Here PUA2 would lose attraction, caues he appears INCONGURANT, he is conveying things that he already IS. It's like, when a guy who owns Ferrari comes ot a bar, and puts a keys from the ferrari onto a table, the whole bar picks up subcommunication that he has a ferrari. Even chicks would feel attraction to this guy, cause of what the ferrari represents (status, adrenalin). Now that same guy comes to a girl with " you know I have ferrari"... BAM... game over. Attraction lost.
Same but more complicated thing happens to good looking PUA2 when he goes in with C&F.
What good-looking Alpha guy needs, is just RAPPORT, and to keep things sexual, cause she already wants him. Why the **** they mess more with ATTRACTION stuff??
Its crazy how sensitive are they are to this subcommunication.
One of My GFs, she told me, then when guys does that on her (being incongurant), that she suspects something is wrong with him, either he is insecure, or he is trying to hard to convey thing that he is not (FAKING). Same thing how the Insecure Guy would try to hide it with talking alot, like really alot, and he wont give people to talk around him. He would talk and talk, to hide how really insecure he is. It's really easy to find out Insecure Guy.
Chicks are experts into this. That is why I always say... "Its not WHAT you say, its HOW you SAY IT!"
Easiest way to develop this sense for subcommunication, is to hang around woman alot. Talk with them, be with them, hang out with them... DON'T try to PU them, just VIBE... have FUN. That is best way to get this sense for it...
2nd biggest problem with C&F is CALIBRATION.
Guys who have problem with emotional intelligence (they can't pick-up other person feelings), they're gonna do C&F (teasing, push-pull) so much, that chick is going to get pissed off, and its going to kill attraction. 'Overgame' is how guys can use C&F you convey this:
-I am PRICE
-I am DONT GIVE A ****
-I am ALPHA
-I am NOT NEEDY
-I am COOL
-you need me, not other way around
And you get attraction (cause she WANTS this kind of guy) she start seeking for rapport (asking questions) to create rapport, and then you continue to tease and C&F her... and she thinks you don't want to connect, you are just party guy who has fun... wrong subcommunication.
This is basic mistake!
Here in Croatia, we love to play the game, so things we are working on is how to turn the tables around, to put yourself in the position where you should be. Like, instead of you picking up chicks, you turn the tables around, and let chicks PU you. That is totally Natural, and its how society should look like. That was exactly how it was million of years ago. Chick's had no power without Men.
Then society programming (matrix) jumped in, and pushed them into a position of power, where they don't feel ok. Right now, women are more insecure when anytime in history, the more power you give to them, the more insecure they are, cause its not natural for them to control people. That is why they hate AFC's who treat them like princesses...
"My dear, what should we do today? What do you want to drink? Do you want sex now?" etc etc..
They ****ing hate those kind of things, cause they feel unnatural in that position.
The effect, I notice is, the more you are their type of guy, the guy they dream about, the more chicks will PU you! The less work you need to do...
Now, my job is to make my students into that kind of guy the women want, and let them approach him and PU him.
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