I posted this initially as a response to another post, but I think it would be helpful to a lot of guys here. This post is for guys who are searching clubs for ONS. There have been so many times when I would go into a club and spent 3 hours with the same chick hoping that I would even wind up kiss closing and number closing at the end; while I promised myself I was out for the ONS. It seemed almost impossible to find a woman that was down to party TONIGHT..and with ME. Then I realized that I was spending too much time with each target, and didn't approach enough. It all comes down to setting up filters. Set up 3 or 4 of them until you've strained yourself the ultimate ONS prospect. Some nights you'll never find it. But I think with this system you'll maximize your chances.
The club game is a numbers game. There are hot chicks everywhere. Some chicks there just for a girls night out, some looking to dance, some there just hanging with co-workers, some looking for a guy to get to know better, some going to hook up, and a few that are there...or at least aren't extremely opposed to fvcking THAT night. Whatever you do you CAN'T take the rejections personally because it's going to take quite a few of them before you find the perfect prospect. Some girls might not like short guys, some might not like tall guys, some might only like bald guys, some might only like black guys...etc. Don't bother trying to change their preference. You'll be there all night and the chances that you can do that, AND she being down to party that night are ridiculously slim. Instead, realize who you are, get your drink on, have a great time and just put yourself out there. Think: "That chick just rejected me, but you know what, it wouldn't have mattered if I was Blitz, or Ross Jefferies, she was going to do the same thing...she just isn't down to party tonight"...and just move on to the next target.
Here are the steps:
Get some liquor in you. Get feelin' good. Enjoy yourself. Mingle, talk, drink it up. Do some shots. Be the man. Make SURE you are having fun,. From the words of my wise friend (david_med@hotmail.com) "Go into full-throttle ONS mode."
When you go to the club, walk around by yourself or with a wing. Go to the dance floor and take chicks by the arm and start dancing with them. Don't do the creepy "dance up behind them" thing.
1) Take them lightly by the arm and turn them to you and start dancing with them. If they turn their back towards you, or walk away - fvck em - they aren't ONS material and would have done the same thing to the next guy that appoached them. If they dance with you, move to step to. If not, repeat step 1.
2) Get close and grind on them within 5 minutes. Dance behind them and grind your d1ck into them. If they are cool with that, advance to step 3. If not, repeat step 1 and get rid of her, she's not ONS material.
3) Within a half hour, go in for a kiss. While you are dancing you can go from behind and kiss her ears and neck, or you can just lean in and kiss her. Don't worry about if she rejects you...if she does, she's not ONS material, again, reeat step 1. If she is cool, go to step 4.
4) Take her to go get drinks and to sit down. Go to the bar, order some shots and a drink for the both of you. Slam the shot at the bar, and take the drink somewhere to sit down while you catch your breath with her. Kiss her again, and go for the makeout session on the couch or wherever you're sitting/standing. Don't push further than some heavy petting and kissing on the neck unless she blatently does it FOR you. If she denies your kiss, or stops your makeout advances, move to the dancefloor and repeat step 3. If she allows it, go to step 5.
5) Make sure you have a place where you CAN get laid tonight. Tell her "Hey afterwards you should come back to (whatever place). I'm going to get some people to come back for an afterhours thing. There won't be anybody else coming back but that won't matter. If she's cool with that spend the rest of the night at the club with her, then take her with you. If she says her friends have to go, then you bring your friends too and you can isolate her at your house. But ideally you want to get her home alone. If she rejects your invitation, go to step 3 and every once in awhile throw in another invitation and some more shots.
It should take NO LONGER than an hour and a half to complete this. If a girl takes longer than that, GET RID OF HER. Dave, you are in ONS mode.. You can't afford to spend the entire night with one chick and wind up with a number that's just going to flake anyway.
Also, consider this:
- I can't stand white chicks anymore for ONS. I would go after hot black chicks, latinas, asians, indian...etc. Chicks who aren't influenced as much by this fvcked up society. If you MUST choose a white chick, make SURE she's getting her drink on heavily.
- Choose girls that are already dancing. They are the ones that are out for a good time. If you find a set of 3...go for it because the other 2 will cancel each other out. If you find one alone then do that. I would avoid 2 sets.
That is pretty much it. I have to give credit to david_med@hotmail.com for much of this material. He's helped me a lot with my club game. Have fun, and just don't give a fvck.
-Blitz
The club game is a numbers game. There are hot chicks everywhere. Some chicks there just for a girls night out, some looking to dance, some there just hanging with co-workers, some looking for a guy to get to know better, some going to hook up, and a few that are there...or at least aren't extremely opposed to fvcking THAT night. Whatever you do you CAN'T take the rejections personally because it's going to take quite a few of them before you find the perfect prospect. Some girls might not like short guys, some might not like tall guys, some might only like bald guys, some might only like black guys...etc. Don't bother trying to change their preference. You'll be there all night and the chances that you can do that, AND she being down to party that night are ridiculously slim. Instead, realize who you are, get your drink on, have a great time and just put yourself out there. Think: "That chick just rejected me, but you know what, it wouldn't have mattered if I was Blitz, or Ross Jefferies, she was going to do the same thing...she just isn't down to party tonight"...and just move on to the next target.
Here are the steps:
Get some liquor in you. Get feelin' good. Enjoy yourself. Mingle, talk, drink it up. Do some shots. Be the man. Make SURE you are having fun,. From the words of my wise friend (david_med@hotmail.com) "Go into full-throttle ONS mode."
When you go to the club, walk around by yourself or with a wing. Go to the dance floor and take chicks by the arm and start dancing with them. Don't do the creepy "dance up behind them" thing.
1) Take them lightly by the arm and turn them to you and start dancing with them. If they turn their back towards you, or walk away - fvck em - they aren't ONS material and would have done the same thing to the next guy that appoached them. If they dance with you, move to step to. If not, repeat step 1.
2) Get close and grind on them within 5 minutes. Dance behind them and grind your d1ck into them. If they are cool with that, advance to step 3. If not, repeat step 1 and get rid of her, she's not ONS material.
3) Within a half hour, go in for a kiss. While you are dancing you can go from behind and kiss her ears and neck, or you can just lean in and kiss her. Don't worry about if she rejects you...if she does, she's not ONS material, again, reeat step 1. If she is cool, go to step 4.
4) Take her to go get drinks and to sit down. Go to the bar, order some shots and a drink for the both of you. Slam the shot at the bar, and take the drink somewhere to sit down while you catch your breath with her. Kiss her again, and go for the makeout session on the couch or wherever you're sitting/standing. Don't push further than some heavy petting and kissing on the neck unless she blatently does it FOR you. If she denies your kiss, or stops your makeout advances, move to the dancefloor and repeat step 3. If she allows it, go to step 5.
5) Make sure you have a place where you CAN get laid tonight. Tell her "Hey afterwards you should come back to (whatever place). I'm going to get some people to come back for an afterhours thing. There won't be anybody else coming back but that won't matter. If she's cool with that spend the rest of the night at the club with her, then take her with you. If she says her friends have to go, then you bring your friends too and you can isolate her at your house. But ideally you want to get her home alone. If she rejects your invitation, go to step 3 and every once in awhile throw in another invitation and some more shots.
It should take NO LONGER than an hour and a half to complete this. If a girl takes longer than that, GET RID OF HER. Dave, you are in ONS mode.. You can't afford to spend the entire night with one chick and wind up with a number that's just going to flake anyway.
Also, consider this:
- I can't stand white chicks anymore for ONS. I would go after hot black chicks, latinas, asians, indian...etc. Chicks who aren't influenced as much by this fvcked up society. If you MUST choose a white chick, make SURE she's getting her drink on heavily.
- Choose girls that are already dancing. They are the ones that are out for a good time. If you find a set of 3...go for it because the other 2 will cancel each other out. If you find one alone then do that. I would avoid 2 sets.
That is pretty much it. I have to give credit to david_med@hotmail.com for much of this material. He's helped me a lot with my club game. Have fun, and just don't give a fvck.
-Blitz
