I've known this girl over a year and we've had a great vibe since we first met. She was on the tail end of a LTR at the time so I didn't sweat it, and moved on to other situations.
Now, 1 year later, I've been involved with 2 girls that she knows personally and those 2 girls have told her about other girls that they think I was with. (I wasn't, but who am I to spoil the fun?)
Anyway over the last month we've been spending more & more time together. I flirt with her a lot but always stop and tell her things like, "This could be really awesome, but I know your brother. You're like my little sister."
I still hang out with different girls, and lately when I'm out with one of them, she will keep sending me text messages asking where I am, what I'm doing etc.
Last night I stayed home, had a sore throat and couldn't even speak. Apparently she didn't believe me. The following text exchange ensued:
HER: Where you at?
ME: Home, like I said.
HER: Why aren't you out? Pick up the phone!
ME: Lost my voice remember...
HER: Fine I'm going out with Steph. Gonna get drunk.
ME: Ok Have fun.
Hours later:
HER: We just did shots and danced on the bar.
HER: EVERYONE was taking pics and video of us.
ME: Uh oh.
HER: Bet you wish you were here now. We look soooo hot tonight.
ME: lol
HER: not lol. U wish you saw this, me, denise and steph.
ME: again, lol.
HER: WHAT EVA
ME: What? I find it amusing. Too bad I missed the spectacle.
HER: Once in a lifetime. Your loss.
Another hour later:
HER: Yeah it sucks that u are not here tonight.
ME: ...
HER: Don't ... me!
HER: I'm upset now I'm going to Danny to cheer me up )
ME: [no response]
Half hour later:
HER: r u upset with me?
ME: Should I be?
HER: r u?
ME: Why do you ask?
HER: Nothing. Good night.
ME: You're not making any sense.
HER: Never mind.
ME: Ok. Whatever
HER: Sry. I am just very upset.
ME: [No response]
So, having read that. What would be your take on this situation? I personally think she was looking for some kind of validation here, although I can't for the life of me figure out exactly what she wanted validated.
Help me try to put the pieces together.
Now, 1 year later, I've been involved with 2 girls that she knows personally and those 2 girls have told her about other girls that they think I was with. (I wasn't, but who am I to spoil the fun?)
Anyway over the last month we've been spending more & more time together. I flirt with her a lot but always stop and tell her things like, "This could be really awesome, but I know your brother. You're like my little sister."
I still hang out with different girls, and lately when I'm out with one of them, she will keep sending me text messages asking where I am, what I'm doing etc.
Last night I stayed home, had a sore throat and couldn't even speak. Apparently she didn't believe me. The following text exchange ensued:
HER: Where you at?
ME: Home, like I said.
HER: Why aren't you out? Pick up the phone!
ME: Lost my voice remember...
HER: Fine I'm going out with Steph. Gonna get drunk.
ME: Ok Have fun.
Hours later:
HER: We just did shots and danced on the bar.
HER: EVERYONE was taking pics and video of us.
ME: Uh oh.
HER: Bet you wish you were here now. We look soooo hot tonight.
ME: lol
HER: not lol. U wish you saw this, me, denise and steph.
ME: again, lol.
HER: WHAT EVA
ME: What? I find it amusing. Too bad I missed the spectacle.
HER: Once in a lifetime. Your loss.
Another hour later:
HER: Yeah it sucks that u are not here tonight.
ME: ...
HER: Don't ... me!
HER: I'm upset now I'm going to Danny to cheer me up )
ME: [no response]
Half hour later:
HER: r u upset with me?
ME: Should I be?
HER: r u?
ME: Why do you ask?
HER: Nothing. Good night.
ME: You're not making any sense.
HER: Never mind.
ME: Ok. Whatever
HER: Sry. I am just very upset.
ME: [No response]
So, having read that. What would be your take on this situation? I personally think she was looking for some kind of validation here, although I can't for the life of me figure out exactly what she wanted validated.
Help me try to put the pieces together.