Boricua_33015
Master Don Juan
Some girls like to use b!tch tests to hit on guys. This includes being a complete *****, and putting down the guy, and threatening his ego to see how much he can handle, and how he handles it... to test his "manliness" or toughness. This has happened to me a quite a number of times, including today while I was at school. I fuking despise b!tch tests because sometimes the girl's can be straight up harsh, and act like they are higher than the guy they are "hitting" on. It's a damn turn off to me.
Let me tell you about my situation today and how I handled it.
I was in my high school walking around with no destination other than to find a suitable place to settle down since I had nowhere to go and freinds, well..... I have none. It's complicated but I'll continue with the story.
I was walking through what other students call the "Ref Hall" because this hall is where all the refs that only speak spanish hang out at. Well, I was going to go up a flight of stairs but a group of girls were blocking my path. The group's scale ratings ranged from 6.5 to 9.5. Most of them were in the higher ratings. So I put my hand on one girl's hip and said "can you let me get through?" Maybe I shouldn't have ASKED to get through and instead should have said "hey your in my way!" or something, but I was trying to be polite.
Well, then all of a sudden 2 girls get in my path, and another says "no, you can't go up these stairs" in spanish, or that is what I understood with my limited knowledge of the language. Then the girls said more things, but with a harsh tone, perhaps putting me down, I dont know but I could tell that there was negative energy coming from those words, and they spoke to me as if I was lower than them. I just laughed at the situation and told all of them "I don't know spanish, I don't understand what your saying." Then one girl who hardly spoke any english goes "hey baby what you doin here?" I wasn't prepared for this, I really thought they were picking on me like some nerd. I was mistaken though, but I would not have been if those hoes weren't acting like such *****es. SO... I told that girl "I don't know spanish but I know you know this..." and I gave her a kiss on the cheek. Then I said "its universal language", and nodded my head at her and left, while still hearing the other spanish hoes player hating and tellin me to "scram!" in spanish, and "go away", but I just turned around midway up the stairs and gave them a smile.
I could have stayed and perhaps "tried" to talk to her, but my subconscious wanted me OUTTA THERE QUICK! becuz I was so overwhelmed by all this negativity from the other hoes... my ego was threatened.
Now.... it may have seemed like I handled myself well, but.... my emotions were not. Even though I hid it with a mediocre smile, my ego was getting shattered because their "tone" and their energy was harsh, EVEN if I didn't understand what they were saying. It was also a very populated area at the time so that could have contributed to these negative emotions of "being laughed at".
I know that if I had control of my emotions and I wasn't thinking through emotional fog, I could have handled the situation with more grace and skill to it. But I wasn't "centered" enough to consciously control my emotions.
I definately felt like slappin some of those hoes because they have no reason to disrespect me like that and to treat me like Im some nerd. I felt like I was surrounded by a bunch of loud mouthed spanish speaking b!tch bullies.
The girl's that were acting like b1tches really ruined it for me. I know the girl who said "hey baby" was obviously attracted to me, but I don't know about the other girls and I am still having doubts about them, thinking that they actually were picking on me just to pick on me. WTF! What happened to sweet girls?
There's also another side of me saying that they were attracted to me, but just ignorant b!tches trying to test me... cuz they want to "Machoest" of men.
So, I really don't know what were the intentions of these girls.... and that the girl who said "hey baby" was either playing around, or really hitting on me....either way, me kissing her without even knowing her was damn ballsy from me.
Anyone else experience this type of behavior from women? Anyone know how to deal with this bullshiat?
Let me tell you about my situation today and how I handled it.
I was in my high school walking around with no destination other than to find a suitable place to settle down since I had nowhere to go and freinds, well..... I have none. It's complicated but I'll continue with the story.
I was walking through what other students call the "Ref Hall" because this hall is where all the refs that only speak spanish hang out at. Well, I was going to go up a flight of stairs but a group of girls were blocking my path. The group's scale ratings ranged from 6.5 to 9.5. Most of them were in the higher ratings. So I put my hand on one girl's hip and said "can you let me get through?" Maybe I shouldn't have ASKED to get through and instead should have said "hey your in my way!" or something, but I was trying to be polite.
Well, then all of a sudden 2 girls get in my path, and another says "no, you can't go up these stairs" in spanish, or that is what I understood with my limited knowledge of the language. Then the girls said more things, but with a harsh tone, perhaps putting me down, I dont know but I could tell that there was negative energy coming from those words, and they spoke to me as if I was lower than them. I just laughed at the situation and told all of them "I don't know spanish, I don't understand what your saying." Then one girl who hardly spoke any english goes "hey baby what you doin here?" I wasn't prepared for this, I really thought they were picking on me like some nerd. I was mistaken though, but I would not have been if those hoes weren't acting like such *****es. SO... I told that girl "I don't know spanish but I know you know this..." and I gave her a kiss on the cheek. Then I said "its universal language", and nodded my head at her and left, while still hearing the other spanish hoes player hating and tellin me to "scram!" in spanish, and "go away", but I just turned around midway up the stairs and gave them a smile.
I could have stayed and perhaps "tried" to talk to her, but my subconscious wanted me OUTTA THERE QUICK! becuz I was so overwhelmed by all this negativity from the other hoes... my ego was threatened.
Now.... it may have seemed like I handled myself well, but.... my emotions were not. Even though I hid it with a mediocre smile, my ego was getting shattered because their "tone" and their energy was harsh, EVEN if I didn't understand what they were saying. It was also a very populated area at the time so that could have contributed to these negative emotions of "being laughed at".
I know that if I had control of my emotions and I wasn't thinking through emotional fog, I could have handled the situation with more grace and skill to it. But I wasn't "centered" enough to consciously control my emotions.
I definately felt like slappin some of those hoes because they have no reason to disrespect me like that and to treat me like Im some nerd. I felt like I was surrounded by a bunch of loud mouthed spanish speaking b!tch bullies.
The girl's that were acting like b1tches really ruined it for me. I know the girl who said "hey baby" was obviously attracted to me, but I don't know about the other girls and I am still having doubts about them, thinking that they actually were picking on me just to pick on me. WTF! What happened to sweet girls?
There's also another side of me saying that they were attracted to me, but just ignorant b!tches trying to test me... cuz they want to "Machoest" of men.
So, I really don't know what were the intentions of these girls.... and that the girl who said "hey baby" was either playing around, or really hitting on me....either way, me kissing her without even knowing her was damn ballsy from me.
Anyone else experience this type of behavior from women? Anyone know how to deal with this bullshiat?
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