Kineti[C]harm
Master Don Juan
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Today I had a really interesting experience. A good female friend of mine was really out of it, crying actually over some rejection.
We talked abit about it and it turned out she had called the guy "CUTE". That was the first compliment she gave him. Now atleast in my native language the word cute is _NOT_ a good compliment on males as most of you should know because it's very neutral AND it is somewhat feminine. Then she got angry at me for saying she fvcked up abit for calling him cute. This later turned into a discussion on selfesteem and selfconfidence where I tried to make her understand that most guys have too big an ego and that words like cute or stuff like that will make a guy insecure. Selfconfidence is one of the most attractive qualities of a man according to her and another girl we know.
I find this most interesting and funny. She got ANGRY because nothing happened with the guy and because I said that calling him CUTE was not a good call... Then she goes onto complain about if the word cute really fvcks up his selfconfidence that "much" she wouldn't be interested anyways. This was a hard discussion because at the same time as I wanted to try and make her understand the male mindset and general society I had a hard time not getting amused by her naitivity. Luckily for me our common female friend really agreed on what I said and understod what I was trying to say.
I'm just gonna say goodgame girls!
We talked abit about it and it turned out she had called the guy "CUTE". That was the first compliment she gave him. Now atleast in my native language the word cute is _NOT_ a good compliment on males as most of you should know because it's very neutral AND it is somewhat feminine. Then she got angry at me for saying she fvcked up abit for calling him cute. This later turned into a discussion on selfesteem and selfconfidence where I tried to make her understand that most guys have too big an ego and that words like cute or stuff like that will make a guy insecure. Selfconfidence is one of the most attractive qualities of a man according to her and another girl we know.
I find this most interesting and funny. She got ANGRY because nothing happened with the guy and because I said that calling him CUTE was not a good call... Then she goes onto complain about if the word cute really fvcks up his selfconfidence that "much" she wouldn't be interested anyways. This was a hard discussion because at the same time as I wanted to try and make her understand the male mindset and general society I had a hard time not getting amused by her naitivity. Luckily for me our common female friend really agreed on what I said and understod what I was trying to say.
I'm just gonna say goodgame girls!