True it does bother him enough to post on a board about it, so maybe dumping is the best option the comfort zone has been crossed.Latinoman said:I disagree.
Why?
Because he is only 19.
The way I look at things...what he should consider doing is dump her. I mean...why be involved with somebody that is into drinking with a bunch of guys? Something that obviously bothering him!
He is only 19. He should not be preocupied for this crap. If she is a drunk or feels is cool to get drunk with a bunch of co-workers on a humpday...and that stuff bothers HIM...then he should dump her and find another woman. If he feels that he will have problems finding women in his age group, then he has other issues that he must address first: self improvement.
But easier said then done, esp' if he is very attatched, i know when i was 19 and my girl (at the time) i was very much into her, too much in fact though it taught me many lessons, this seems one he will have to learn himself.
seems no matter what he does here he will loose out, he does not want her drinking with other guys and getting drunk fair do's, tbh about why would she want to? it all comes back to the male female friend zone again and again.
Tricky ground esp' when i know from exp' women and men use the they are just a mate smoke screen a hell of alot. Plus i find it hard that no man could ever be not attracted to a women unless she was ig ugly!
Women can have male friends but men cant this is the way i feel and i know i am not alone on this! unless the women is a total dog.
has some one put here, when they beak up she will most likley be on the next male guy closest to her, this is usually the drinking buddie.
Also lets get some home truths here about women too.
Women will not go drnking with guys they do not like, this is the bottom line truth.
Girls could have a male friend that she likes cos he treats her like a brother, they have known each other for years, more often then not been to university together e.t.c.
Girls with LSE (low self esteem) have male friends that qualify her each and every time she sees them, telling her she looks hot and sh**, they are in essence her ego trip boys, whilst the BF is at home playing PS or some other thing.
Girls have male friends that are friends of friends, or family members mates!
Girls have gay male friends.
They also have male friends that are just nice innocent guys, i dont know what this is, but the guy on knowing them are totally innocent, they are normally in a marriage or relationship and very happy.
Girls also use the male friend thing to justify alone time with a guy they like.
are there more?
But going out drinking with guys who she has just met knows nothing about sucks big time, getting to know them or not, unless she is getting to know her female mates and the guys just happen to be there, in the hope of getting some.
Put it this way if a guy 'wanted' your women he would not give a sh** about YOU in the least, in fact you would be a challange for most guys to crack. Some guys will respect your togetherness these usually dont go out drinking with them, cos they dont want to imply anything is going on.
put it this way if you girl asked me to go out for a drink i would say why? personnaly i dont do female friends, for starters i have two sister, that offer me all the advice i ever need, truth not BS.
Plus i far prefer the company of men then women when i am drinking, women can bore the hell out of you tbh! plus if she was hot i would be just thinking when is the time to F***.
getting a lift home with steve, unless he is happily married with kids and very old i would be concerned yes!