After five years ,Things had been not good for a while had been long distance for three years. recentley my girlfriend said she wanted to split up wanted to move on etc im not sure if there is another guy she denies this obviousley. i was pretty selfish for last year, i can admit this and see i killed her love for me i put no effort in the relationship at all. I called her last week to say i wanted it to work in which she was polite but basically said she sees no future and is ready to move on and that she will call me three days later because she had gone to a different city to see her friend.she did call exactley when she said not a minute before and said again she does not want to get back so i said fair enough goodbye . She calls me next night to see how i am i answer and acted fine and not needy she was asking me questions about some girls iv added on the internet in which i said i had to go. I deleted her number. I have not called her for three days decided on no contact. well today she calls me seven times i dont answer then she texts me she had a bad dream and wants to know if im ok and that im obviousley ignoring her. im so confused right now dont know what to do for best should i reply? ignore . im not ready to be friends but at same time i would like to get back even tho i know i could not get over this. she is a very pretty girl and has been going out a lot recentley and hanging with other guys any more i dont know but im not stupid.