Blown5.0 said:
lack of escalation my ass...
the first night we were together...we were on the couch going at it...and she stopped because she said her roommate would be home...
So you say from the very first night you two were together,you two were "on the couch going at it".
And in your original post,you said...
Blown5.0 said:
...every time we saw each other she was real physical kissing...wanting me to hold her at night...we messed around a little.
There are several reason why this could be like the other posters said...
She met someone else.
She doesn't want to feel slvtty.
Lack of escalation.
My guess would be both the lack of escalation
and ASD (anti-slvt defense).
You said that from "
the first night you two were together",you two were going at it. And not only the first night,but each and every time after that when you two were together,you two were physical with each other.
Seems to me like she doesn't want to be view as just an sex object by you.
I know this may sound crazy,but do you think it's possible for you two to hang out/spend time together and
not get physical/sexual?
Go out somewhere. Walk with her,talk with her.
See what she has to offer other than sex.
You've established the fact that you two are sexually attracted to each other. She knows you're sexually interested in her.
The two of you getting physical each and every time you see each other made that clear.
So besides sex,
what other reasons do you think
SHE WOULD THINK you'd want to be with her?
Can you think of any?
I doubt you can. You know why?
Because the sex/sexuality is in the way. It has to be,because that's ALL you two do when you're with each other.
And she's starting to feel that.
I say take her out...ON A DATE....not back to your couch.
Take her out and spend time together. And for pete's sake,learn SOMETHING about her other than her cup size.
It's ok to hold her hand,or even kiss her while you're out,but after the date,TAKE HER HOME....to
HER HOME,and drop her off.
Do that at least 2 times BEFORE you try to take her back to "the couch" again.