I personally could NEVER even consider any type of relationship with a woman pre-sexual encounter. But, if your moral beliefs are that you should not do it - i encourage you to stand for what you believe in as far as that is concerned....
However, you are young, she is young; you both are inexperienced. But...
Inexperienced woman > Inexperienced man
as far as "game" is concerned...
keep that in mind...
Some comments...
This is true.
This is not true.
You can spin plates without sex. 50% of my plates are girls i just keep around to keep me occupied when i need them. Girls i've never had sex with. These girls are more or less flirt buddies.
If you are not seeking sex - then get whatever it is that you're seeking from MANY women.
What were her sexual fantasies?
uhmmmm....
This woman is not a virgin (i can't trust you because you're trusting a woman). She's also trying to figure out if you'd be willing to cross that line, which is why she's dropping fantasies, talk about her panties being wet, and telling you she'd give you a BJ. She's trying to see 1) If you're going to judge her sexual openness. 2) If you'll lead her into doing something in the "spur of the moment" on accident.
This is very similar to when a woman who is "taken" begins to talk to me about sexual things in a way that tells me that she's "down" if i am. She's trying to figure out if im secret society.
She's trying to figure out if you are secret society.
She would have done it! No question...
I'm not so sure of that. She probably gave him many BJs and perhaps more (depending on if he had the balls to lead her into it or not; she IS down).
This guy is a bit of a rebel? Perhaps someone who doesn't entirely believe in what the church teaches?
I see...
You don't know. And you won't know unless she's absolutely sure you won't judge her.
But i sense that you are looking for purity, and she probably does too.
This is all pretty small time man. I can see how it would disturb you, but it's not that big of a deal in the grand scheme of life. If you want to know how to handle this next time - read up on some "amog" techniques.
Yes. Not because of what she's done, but because she is not what you're looking for (in my opinion). Remember what i said - you can spin plates without sex.