GF of 2.5 months, we were friends for many years before it. We both had feelings for each other, and decided to become exclusive.
in the past 2 weeks she's been acting differently, kind of feeling a lost connection between us, i suspect she is talking to her ex.
Friday night 6pm I ask if she wants to hang out tonight, she says no, she has plans, "hanging out with some uni friends (girls night out), dinner and maybe clubing after"
I tell her ok cool hf, and i make plans of my own with the boys. we decide to hit the clubs that night too and drink it up to let off some steam.
woah and behold I catch her with the ex, just the two of them.
I'm shocked and heart broken by this. almost ruined the rest of my night (it was about 12am)... but decided to shrug it off. anyway.. long story short, the next morning i call her (thoughts of her cheating run through my head the enitre night.. feels bad man, couldn't sleep well) and just ask whats up with that? you told me one thing and you're doing another.
She said she had to lie because she thought I would of not let her hang out with him. (she says its just friends, i'm thinking what a load of bulls**t) I'm not controlling, i'm just upset that she lied. I get the feeling (body language etc) that she wants to spend time with him more than me.
What should I do...? I've been hanging out with a good friend of mine all day trying to keep my mind off it and just do normal things.
There was one cute girl at the gym I met before this, maybe try re-initiate with her? End my current one and let the ex get her back? or fight for her back?
I think it'll be awkward next time i hang out with my gf.
How do you deal with this..
in the past 2 weeks she's been acting differently, kind of feeling a lost connection between us, i suspect she is talking to her ex.
Friday night 6pm I ask if she wants to hang out tonight, she says no, she has plans, "hanging out with some uni friends (girls night out), dinner and maybe clubing after"
I tell her ok cool hf, and i make plans of my own with the boys. we decide to hit the clubs that night too and drink it up to let off some steam.
woah and behold I catch her with the ex, just the two of them.
I'm shocked and heart broken by this. almost ruined the rest of my night (it was about 12am)... but decided to shrug it off. anyway.. long story short, the next morning i call her (thoughts of her cheating run through my head the enitre night.. feels bad man, couldn't sleep well) and just ask whats up with that? you told me one thing and you're doing another.
She said she had to lie because she thought I would of not let her hang out with him. (she says its just friends, i'm thinking what a load of bulls**t) I'm not controlling, i'm just upset that she lied. I get the feeling (body language etc) that she wants to spend time with him more than me.
What should I do...? I've been hanging out with a good friend of mine all day trying to keep my mind off it and just do normal things.
There was one cute girl at the gym I met before this, maybe try re-initiate with her? End my current one and let the ex get her back? or fight for her back?
I think it'll be awkward next time i hang out with my gf.
How do you deal with this..