To keep a long story short, I had met this girl at work (she was a customer)...took her out for lunch and to a museum, it went ok but no kiss close or much kino (we were on the metro train and I don't feel very comfortable with PDA)..so anyways she ends up coming to my work to get a prescription filled about a week and a half later...it just so happens to be around the time we close for lunch so I tell her to come grab something to eat with me.
We eat and then she talks about how she might have to go out of town for a while to tend to a sick brother and how it's a hard decision to make because she is currently in night school. If she were to take care of the brother then she would have to repeat the entire program of which she only has a few more months to go. Anyways we open up again and I have to grab the phone so she gives me a tight hug goodbye and then I make the mistake of calling her a bout an hour later telling her I couldn't focus (i was kidding i just wanted to setup another date)...so anyways of course our schedules totally clash as i work during the day and she has night school..I tell ok we'll talk in the week (this was a Sunday) and see when we meet up, she says cool. Week passes by no call from her....I call her up on that following Saturday but no answer, leave a voicemail and she doesn't call me back. I call her again on that Wednesday and she doesn't pick up her cell (bad reception at her house too) so then I call her house phone. Her mother actually picks up and then I tell her my name and that I'll call back some other time. Another week and a half passes by, then I decide to give her one last call and of course after a couple rings it goes to Voicemail...I only left the one message, but obviously if she had any interest she would have made the effort to call me back. Her numbers were deleted from my phone and she has been deleted from any possibility of anything occurring between us.
However I'm honestly hurt over how she could accept my lunch and then just not at least have the decency to call me back and put in some nice terms that she doesn't have any interest in me or whatever..it really angers me the amount of disrespect that she has given me. I must have been too nice or been too desperate or something...
Anyways I was thinking of shooting her some kind of email and expressing how disrespectful her behavior was but no hard feelings, as I know my pharmacy has the lowest prices and is closest to her..she takes pain medication for a medical condition she has...i wouldn't want her to stop going there just because shes afraid she will run into me and then i would make some sort of scene (far from it, i'm working on myself now before I work on other prospects)...
Should I send her an email and then write her off or should I just continue as I have and just write her off completely
We eat and then she talks about how she might have to go out of town for a while to tend to a sick brother and how it's a hard decision to make because she is currently in night school. If she were to take care of the brother then she would have to repeat the entire program of which she only has a few more months to go. Anyways we open up again and I have to grab the phone so she gives me a tight hug goodbye and then I make the mistake of calling her a bout an hour later telling her I couldn't focus (i was kidding i just wanted to setup another date)...so anyways of course our schedules totally clash as i work during the day and she has night school..I tell ok we'll talk in the week (this was a Sunday) and see when we meet up, she says cool. Week passes by no call from her....I call her up on that following Saturday but no answer, leave a voicemail and she doesn't call me back. I call her again on that Wednesday and she doesn't pick up her cell (bad reception at her house too) so then I call her house phone. Her mother actually picks up and then I tell her my name and that I'll call back some other time. Another week and a half passes by, then I decide to give her one last call and of course after a couple rings it goes to Voicemail...I only left the one message, but obviously if she had any interest she would have made the effort to call me back. Her numbers were deleted from my phone and she has been deleted from any possibility of anything occurring between us.
However I'm honestly hurt over how she could accept my lunch and then just not at least have the decency to call me back and put in some nice terms that she doesn't have any interest in me or whatever..it really angers me the amount of disrespect that she has given me. I must have been too nice or been too desperate or something...
Anyways I was thinking of shooting her some kind of email and expressing how disrespectful her behavior was but no hard feelings, as I know my pharmacy has the lowest prices and is closest to her..she takes pain medication for a medical condition she has...i wouldn't want her to stop going there just because shes afraid she will run into me and then i would make some sort of scene (far from it, i'm working on myself now before I work on other prospects)...
Should I send her an email and then write her off or should I just continue as I have and just write her off completely