tryin 2 play
Senior Don Juan
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I am just realizing that my current girlfriend is an emotional mess! It is not all her fault, her ex was abusive and pretty much brainwashed her. She is completely in love with me, i can tell because she tells me but more importantly she shows it in many ways.
The problems come on what seem like to me random days. She will sound upset and I ask her whats wrong. She basically tells me how I am the greatest thing to ever happen to her and she wants to be with me forever. Then she says something about how she can't get the stuff her ex said to her out of her head. He told her she wont go anywhere without him and will be nothing...she believes it.
She says she has no interest in him, but is scared that he might be right. She then says she is not sure if we should be together because she doesn't want to hurt me. This has happened twice in a month and a half. I find it completely rediculous. She is head over heals about me...but sometimes is unsure what to do. She wil usually contact me later and say that she is sorry about it and didnt mean it. She will say its all in her head, al lot of insecurities, that she cant leave me, and she just has to work through it.
Its kind of driving me crazy...what should i do?!?!?! Is she too messed up? I dont know if i should move on or try to work with her!
The problems come on what seem like to me random days. She will sound upset and I ask her whats wrong. She basically tells me how I am the greatest thing to ever happen to her and she wants to be with me forever. Then she says something about how she can't get the stuff her ex said to her out of her head. He told her she wont go anywhere without him and will be nothing...she believes it.
She says she has no interest in him, but is scared that he might be right. She then says she is not sure if we should be together because she doesn't want to hurt me. This has happened twice in a month and a half. I find it completely rediculous. She is head over heals about me...but sometimes is unsure what to do. She wil usually contact me later and say that she is sorry about it and didnt mean it. She will say its all in her head, al lot of insecurities, that she cant leave me, and she just has to work through it.
Its kind of driving me crazy...what should i do?!?!?! Is she too messed up? I dont know if i should move on or try to work with her!