when i go to clubs, i have no intention of landing a one night stand, or picking up girls as future prospects. i want to go, dance (preferably dance dirty/freaky) with as many girls as possible, and have the time of my life.
so i essentially spend the entire night on the dancefloor with my buddies.
what do you think is the best way to get a girl to dance with you, while on the dancefloor? do you just approach, lightly grab her by the arm so that she looks at you, and start dancing? and if you get a physical rejection, then just move on to the next one? or should you say something to her first? (but the problem is that girls usually can't hear me even if i'm screaming in their ear). usually clubs are so dark that you can barely see the person's face, and can't make eye contact at all.
another problem that maybe you guys can address is how to handle a group of say 4 or 5 girls who are dancing with each other. always find that almost all of the girls in the group are hot, and i want to dance with all of them. so i pick one, try an approach, and if i get rejected, i move on.....but i'm very weary about going back to that group and trying to dance with the other girls, because they've seen me get rejected by their girlfriend. how do you handle that?
it just seems kind of abrupt walking straight up to a girl and just starting to dance with her -- if i was a girl, i'd be thinking "where the hell did this guy come from....".
thanks!
so i essentially spend the entire night on the dancefloor with my buddies.
what do you think is the best way to get a girl to dance with you, while on the dancefloor? do you just approach, lightly grab her by the arm so that she looks at you, and start dancing? and if you get a physical rejection, then just move on to the next one? or should you say something to her first? (but the problem is that girls usually can't hear me even if i'm screaming in their ear). usually clubs are so dark that you can barely see the person's face, and can't make eye contact at all.
another problem that maybe you guys can address is how to handle a group of say 4 or 5 girls who are dancing with each other. always find that almost all of the girls in the group are hot, and i want to dance with all of them. so i pick one, try an approach, and if i get rejected, i move on.....but i'm very weary about going back to that group and trying to dance with the other girls, because they've seen me get rejected by their girlfriend. how do you handle that?
it just seems kind of abrupt walking straight up to a girl and just starting to dance with her -- if i was a girl, i'd be thinking "where the hell did this guy come from....".
thanks!