Getting an older woman

[firefighter1junkie]

This thread is not so much about getting an older woman. As I have already talked with her on the phone and been on our first night out. My question is when I text her she replys with real short matter-a-fact type of answers, should I take this as she is not in to me? Example... I asked her when was the next time we could go out and she could buy me a couple drinks? she replied "Anytime". There are other examples but I am not going to type them all out. She is only 38 I am only 36. Plus this is only my third person I have seen in like 17 yrs. I had been married for 14 and dated my exgirlfriend 3 yrs. So to say that the dating scene has changed is an understatement.

 

[joekerr31]

Usually, all it takes to bag an older woman is having a c*ck.

but what if you don't have a c*ck. then what does it take to bag her?

 

[betterthandead]

Uh, she's 2 years older. Usually when I see someone post a should i date this older person. I picture 7-10 years.


Get out of here

 

[iqqi]

Uh, she's 2 years older. Usually when I see someone post a should i date this older person. I picture 7-10 years.


Get out of here

LOL, ditto. WTH???

 

[ketostix]

Well even if I was over 40 I'd still consider a woman who's 38 an older woman. I consider 26 year old women older .

 

[aliasguy]

I consider 38 older, too, and I'm 43. I understand.

Reminds me of The Breakfast Club.

"Some of them, I just 'consider.' "

 

[jophil28]

LOL, ditto. WTH???

Hey IqqI, your are required to include YOUR age in your profile. I cant see it !
After all if you want to be a mature man amongst men then you need to let us in on some more personal details - like your Visa # and your ATM PIN, and your height and age.. OH, don't forget to post your weight too - no lies about that one please.
Honesty and trust bonds us here on MM.

 

[iqqi]

Lol. Well I was

 

[Latinoman]

This thread is not so much about getting an older woman. As I have already talked with her on the phone and been on our first night out. My question is when I text her she replys with real short matter-a-fact type of answers, should I take this as she is not in to me? Example... I asked her when was the next time we could go out and she could buy me a couple drinks? she replied "Anytime". There are other examples but I am not going to type them all out. She is only 38 I am only 36. Plus this is only my third person I have seen in like 17 yrs. I had been married for 14 and dated my exgirlfriend 3 yrs. So to say that the dating scene has changed is an understatement.

She is not an "older woman". She is YOUR age. Older for a man 30+ (but below 55) is a woman that is 5+ year older than him.

 

[Latinoman]

Now if you are referring to "older woman" in the general term...then I would say 35+ could be considered "older woman". Older as in reference to me, would be a woman 5+ years older than me.

 

[STR8UP]

I dunno.....I'm 36 and i consider anything about 30 to be "older", haha

 

[jophil28]

My question is when I text her she replys with real short matter-a-fact type of answers, should I take this as she is not in to me? Example... I asked her when was the next time we could go out and she could buy me a couple drinks? she replied "Anytime". There are other examples but I am not going to type them all out.

Those short answers ?? What do they mean ? Do they mean that she is not INTO you and therefore not putting much effort into her replies - in other words she lacks the enthusiasm that a high IL would demonstrate ..Perhaps /

Or she may just be economical with words . Is she similarly reticent when you are together ??

Try this - send her a "one worder" text which is deliberately obscure or cryptic. If she has even moderate IL she will get back to you . Confusion seeks clarity .
If she does not attempt to get more info about this text then dump her - she is just along for the ride.

 

[droogie]

How about giving her a call to see how she answers your invites??? That should give you a better indication as to weather her IL is high or not. If texting ain't working for you; change things up.

Women over 40 are older women regardless of how old the guy is.