You do not want women to be infatuated with you. Why, because infatuation is ugly. Anyone who was ever infatuated with a woman and wondered why she was so cold and distant, why she lost all interest when you told her you liked her, or loved her, and wondered why she just didn't want you; well, it's all put into perspective when you become the object of infatuation. It's a hellish experience prying off the interest of a woman you just have no desire for, and the thing is that infatuation usually always occurs with women you do not want. You see they are desperate and you just want to run, but cling they will, even to your smallest words. Give them an inch and they will take a mile.
Can anybody tell me how to... make her get infatuated with you?
You can't make any girl get infatuated with you. It happens on its own. Can a 300 pound walrus 'push your buttons' into being infatuated over her? I rest my case.