i got this girl that is afraid to lose me but afraid to commit to me. when we hook up she is crazy about me, i can tell she sincerelly is. so i notice this and i really like her as well so i start to pursue her, not a lot but just a little, so she starts to blow me off. then i ignore her cause i get pissed off and she comes running back to me, afraid to lose me. ive had conversations with her and she says she knows if we got involved we would be in a long term relationship and she says it scares her. she is petrified to being commited to a relationship. she has never had a boyfriend just hooked up with a lot of guys for short periods of time. what should i do? our relationship is different than the other guys she says, and thats why she is so scared casue we get along too well and i guess we are just too perfect for eachother.