Luke Skywalker said:
I know you mean well, but I have to make a few corrections to what you are saying, at least to show I'm taking your posts seriously.
I don't give a ****. I do not care what you do. But I do care in spreading the truth as I see it. This is what I believe to be true. I am trying to get you to open up your mind and consider it. Whether you accept it or not does not matter. I am trying to get you to really think about it.
That's right, I can not support myself financially at this time, but it's possible in a few months.
Do it.
No excuses. You owe it to YOURSELF. Respect yourself.
To you, you are the most imoprtant thing in this world. You better respect yourself and have some independence. Do not be at the mercy of your parents. You have a life to live, a legacy to build, a mark to leave on the world however small or large as you want.
Do not waste time.
Every moment is precious because every moment is unique. No two moments are ever alike. Even if some days, things may seem that way. They are not.
You only read this post for the first time ONCE. Every time after will be amother moment, and it will be different.
So why waste more?
Time is a limited commodity.
It's all irrelevant if I cant get my parent's permission to get laid anyway. House rules have to be obeyed in exchange for living rent free.
You have two options (taking into account the age of your parents, and therefore their flexibility and patience with you.)
1. Explain to them your situation. What you want. How it seems to you they are stepping in the way, and try to negotiate something.
2. Lie. It may seem immoral and it is, but sometimes you just have to. or you can just say nothing. Try to avoid giving out any information. Say nothing. That way you don't have to lie and you don't face the consequences of whatever actions they believe you have been involved in.
It would not make a sizable difference on what I'm offering vs other guys out there if the only difference is between independence and living with parents.
Appearances matter for alot. The women don't like bums. Only the loser chicks do because they have no other option left.
Unless you are rich and famous or have exceptional game, then I'd still be an average joe living independently.
True. But better being an average joe with an average life than a bum with no life at the beck and call of his parents. And with a curfew I assume.
'kiss conquest' on the first date.
Again. Its not rocket science. Its just like making friends. You do not plan what to say and when. you connect with people instinctivelly.
Try to do the same thing except with the females.
I've had successful dates with three girls, so your generalisation is wrong that 'no chick' is going to want me because I live with my parents - especially basing it on this one isolated chick that I didn't totally connect with.
dating = having sex.
A failed date (or series of) means you did not have sex. You didn't for reasons I keep outlining.
Perhaps the girl felt obligated to give you some type of reward however little because maybe she pittied you?
If she was really interested, she would have wanted more.