seek&destroy
Don Juan
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Told an old friend of mine I like her, and that I want to date her. She was a little shocked, so she LJBF'd me. I'm thinking...is there any way to change her mind? And how do I go about this?
Background:
We went to high school together (I graduated in '05, she was a year younger than me). She was always pursuing me, and always hanging out with me AND always surrounded by other guys. Mind you, I never had an interest in her back then, but since I heard she ended her relationship of 5 years just recently, I had to do something about it, since I only have a limited amount of time to work with here.
I had a similar setup with another girl a couple of months ago, ended up fvcking up...worse than I ever have in my life thus far, and that left me bitter until about 10 minutes ago, when I heard that my "friend" was single again.
I spoke to her on the phone about 5 minutes ago. Turns out she's been single for about 2 months, and she's not actively looking for anything serious so soon (according to her...my past experiences have taught me to do what I want and ignore what she says in the beginning...in terms of what she wants)
Is this possible??
Background:
We went to high school together (I graduated in '05, she was a year younger than me). She was always pursuing me, and always hanging out with me AND always surrounded by other guys. Mind you, I never had an interest in her back then, but since I heard she ended her relationship of 5 years just recently, I had to do something about it, since I only have a limited amount of time to work with here.
I had a similar setup with another girl a couple of months ago, ended up fvcking up...worse than I ever have in my life thus far, and that left me bitter until about 10 minutes ago, when I heard that my "friend" was single again.
I spoke to her on the phone about 5 minutes ago. Turns out she's been single for about 2 months, and she's not actively looking for anything serious so soon (according to her...my past experiences have taught me to do what I want and ignore what she says in the beginning...in terms of what she wants)
Is this possible??