Thanks for your rant, but all you did was point out the obvious. Women are viewed as sex objects, men are viewed as success objects. Men, by nature, default to polygamy. Women, by nature, default to hypergamy. Relationship clashes happen because one party has to give up their natural sexual strategy to suit the other. Either the woman has to stick with the guy even if better options come her way (giving up hypergamy) or the guy has to stay loyal to his woman even if other women comes his way (giving up polygamy).
If you're going to rant and start by listing your qualifications, you may want to proofread your post. I wasn't aware that only humans had brain cells.
Yes, a lot of women are golddiggers, especially the hotter they are. A lot of guys with options cheat. Tough luck, that's the world.