SweetTooth
Don Juan
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- Mar 1, 2007
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Basically me and her have been friends for a few years. We aren't that close but we have the same friends and have hung out together etc. I started liking her recently but she has a boyfriend. She never mentioned him to me... So I asked her out. She turned me down, saying something like "it could've been different if I wasn't in a relationship, but then again me and my bf argue a lot and you make me feel better" and "I'm confused because I have problems with him but I don't know what to say because I don't want to lead you on..."
So anyway her best friend spoke to her and tells me that the girl would never go out with me even if she didn't have a boyfriend.
So I speak to her again saying that I heard how she feels about me, that it's all fine etc. but she goes to me "I told you the truth it really could be different, it's hard to tell when I'm with someone". A few weeks later she went from telling me that she couldn't tell, to saying she finds me attractive, she said "I feel as though I shouldn't be telling you as it won't help you get over things" then started saying she would go out with me if she was single. She said "I don't know if me and my bf are gonna last much longer tbh I feel as though you like me more than he does for one".
I told her best friend again. The girl says to her best friend that she makes **** up to me because it's too awkward to reject me (wtf?) so I go speak to her again and say again that I know what she told her best friend, that she shouldn't have led me on. She tells me that she has to lie to her best friend about things so it doesn't get back to her boyfriend.
We've argued a lot since then and she refuses to admit things and apologize (though she says now that she'd never go out with me because we argue too much and I hate her all the time) she continuously says she told the truth.
Another guy (and even the girl's best friend) told me she's a user and leads people on who give her attention. I texted her words to that effect and got a "**** you." back and she wrote on her FB "love how people know more about me than I do "
What should I do about her? What should I say to her? I'm speaking to other girls now but I'm ****ing angry at her seeing as she was meant to be a "friend". She was a good friend to me before this happened.
So anyway her best friend spoke to her and tells me that the girl would never go out with me even if she didn't have a boyfriend.
So I speak to her again saying that I heard how she feels about me, that it's all fine etc. but she goes to me "I told you the truth it really could be different, it's hard to tell when I'm with someone". A few weeks later she went from telling me that she couldn't tell, to saying she finds me attractive, she said "I feel as though I shouldn't be telling you as it won't help you get over things" then started saying she would go out with me if she was single. She said "I don't know if me and my bf are gonna last much longer tbh I feel as though you like me more than he does for one".
I told her best friend again. The girl says to her best friend that she makes **** up to me because it's too awkward to reject me (wtf?) so I go speak to her again and say again that I know what she told her best friend, that she shouldn't have led me on. She tells me that she has to lie to her best friend about things so it doesn't get back to her boyfriend.
We've argued a lot since then and she refuses to admit things and apologize (though she says now that she'd never go out with me because we argue too much and I hate her all the time) she continuously says she told the truth.
Another guy (and even the girl's best friend) told me she's a user and leads people on who give her attention. I texted her words to that effect and got a "**** you." back and she wrote on her FB "love how people know more about me than I do "
What should I do about her? What should I say to her? I'm speaking to other girls now but I'm ****ing angry at her seeing as she was meant to be a "friend". She was a good friend to me before this happened.