Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
As you guys know, we have many formulaic “rules” here that serve as training wheels to get us in the right mindset and to help us overcome our problems with women.
As you also know, I am typically pretty hard on women in my writings here, and I take the female population to task for their words and behavior. I talk about male authority, the bratty-ness of women, their lack of an internal locus of control, their inability to self-govern, and so on.
Yet I continually get “likes” from women on my posts, even though I am being harsh in my expression. Why is this? Shouldn’t they be folding their arms and stomping their feet at my “misogynistic” attitude?
Many men have asked me how it is that so many of my posts receive “likes” from women, so I thought it would be useful to answer this here.
It is because although I speak formulaically and harshly here (In the view of the outside world), they internally intuit that my leadership and guidance is tempered with kindness and concern for the woman (in a relationship), that my discipline is administered for the good of the relationship and for her, that I know that effective leadership is ALWAYS sacrificial, and that I have that rare quality called “Backbone”.
So what’s my point? My point is that women internally know that they need guidance and discipline, and they possess an internal intuition about men of character who are not afraid to administer these. They possess an internal “knowing” that such a man doesn’t do these things out of insecurity and ego, but rather out of a desire to do and live righteously and for the benefit of all.
If you’re just some guy who is out to get laid and increase his notch count, I have no words of advice other than to tell you that you’re living a life of dissipation.
If, on the other hand, you are a man looking for a decent relationship, my advice is to study leadership and become a leader. Genuine leadership is never seized, but rather, is granted by those being led. Leadership requires strength, decisiveness, moral fortitude, the ability to reward good behavior and punish bad, the ability to protect, the ability to provide amusement and fun, and leadership is always ultimately self-sacrificial for the benefit of those who are led.
So when you see females “liking” my posts where I call women to task in our typical harsh male shorthand, know that they do these “likes” because they have an internal “knowing” that in real life, my exercise of these principles is tempered with higher principles. I’m not trying to be a hard-ass, but rather I’m working to normalize the immense societal imbalance and sickness that we currently struggle with.
Just as a child who has caring parents internally knows that discipline is administered for his or her benefit and is a good, positive thing even though it hurts, so it is with women who receive the discipline of an authentic leader. It hurts, and they might initially rail against it, but it gives them SECURITY on many different levels.
A woman can sense if you’re taking them to task out of ego and misplaced anger, or out of well-developed character. There is no thought process behind this, just intuition and inner knowing.
He who has an ear, let him hear. Become a man of authority and simultaneous genuine kindness as you move through the world, and your problems with women will be history.
That’s why my harsh posts get the likes, folks. Women know who you are by intuition alone, based on tiny nuances they observe. They will test you once, and usually never again, because they feel safe and positive about your backbone and your leadership. Women subconsciously crave a man who will lead them and put them in their place when they get out of line. This kind of man generates the deepest kind of love, loyalty and most important of all, respect from women.
As you also know, I am typically pretty hard on women in my writings here, and I take the female population to task for their words and behavior. I talk about male authority, the bratty-ness of women, their lack of an internal locus of control, their inability to self-govern, and so on.
Yet I continually get “likes” from women on my posts, even though I am being harsh in my expression. Why is this? Shouldn’t they be folding their arms and stomping their feet at my “misogynistic” attitude?
Many men have asked me how it is that so many of my posts receive “likes” from women, so I thought it would be useful to answer this here.
It is because although I speak formulaically and harshly here (In the view of the outside world), they internally intuit that my leadership and guidance is tempered with kindness and concern for the woman (in a relationship), that my discipline is administered for the good of the relationship and for her, that I know that effective leadership is ALWAYS sacrificial, and that I have that rare quality called “Backbone”.
So what’s my point? My point is that women internally know that they need guidance and discipline, and they possess an internal intuition about men of character who are not afraid to administer these. They possess an internal “knowing” that such a man doesn’t do these things out of insecurity and ego, but rather out of a desire to do and live righteously and for the benefit of all.
If you’re just some guy who is out to get laid and increase his notch count, I have no words of advice other than to tell you that you’re living a life of dissipation.
If, on the other hand, you are a man looking for a decent relationship, my advice is to study leadership and become a leader. Genuine leadership is never seized, but rather, is granted by those being led. Leadership requires strength, decisiveness, moral fortitude, the ability to reward good behavior and punish bad, the ability to protect, the ability to provide amusement and fun, and leadership is always ultimately self-sacrificial for the benefit of those who are led.
So when you see females “liking” my posts where I call women to task in our typical harsh male shorthand, know that they do these “likes” because they have an internal “knowing” that in real life, my exercise of these principles is tempered with higher principles. I’m not trying to be a hard-ass, but rather I’m working to normalize the immense societal imbalance and sickness that we currently struggle with.
Just as a child who has caring parents internally knows that discipline is administered for his or her benefit and is a good, positive thing even though it hurts, so it is with women who receive the discipline of an authentic leader. It hurts, and they might initially rail against it, but it gives them SECURITY on many different levels.
A woman can sense if you’re taking them to task out of ego and misplaced anger, or out of well-developed character. There is no thought process behind this, just intuition and inner knowing.
He who has an ear, let him hear. Become a man of authority and simultaneous genuine kindness as you move through the world, and your problems with women will be history.
That’s why my harsh posts get the likes, folks. Women know who you are by intuition alone, based on tiny nuances they observe. They will test you once, and usually never again, because they feel safe and positive about your backbone and your leadership. Women subconsciously crave a man who will lead them and put them in their place when they get out of line. This kind of man generates the deepest kind of love, loyalty and most important of all, respect from women.