gravityeyelids
Master Don Juan
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Forgive me for asking such a simple question, but this is a huge sticking point for me. Now i realize "pickup lines" aren't some magic formula, but the right opener can be very effective. I feel like i can do very well at almost any other part of the interaction aside from opening and the time right after the opener. It's not even really approach anxiety so much as it's me having no idea what to say. I find myself reverting to really lame chode stuff like "hey, what's up?" or "hey, who're you?", which can work with like HB7's, but is especially lame with 9's or 10's.
Not only is lack of good openers a problem for me, but even if I successfully open a set, i find myself unable to follow up with anything interesting. I hate regular small talk after the opener, but sometimes i don't know what else to say...
I have better results opening mixed sets, because i introduce myself to the guys and make friends with them, and then kind of snub the girls until they're trying to get my attention (similar to mystery method). But those sets of like 3 hot chicks are so hard to open for me....it's like instant annihilation haha
Give me your favorite creative openers (field tested, ones that work for you, not just stuff you copied from online) for the following situations (and preferably something to follow up with):
College House Party (mostly this one)
Packed College Bar
College club
(inb4 "Hi." or "Hey.")
Not only is lack of good openers a problem for me, but even if I successfully open a set, i find myself unable to follow up with anything interesting. I hate regular small talk after the opener, but sometimes i don't know what else to say...
I have better results opening mixed sets, because i introduce myself to the guys and make friends with them, and then kind of snub the girls until they're trying to get my attention (similar to mystery method). But those sets of like 3 hot chicks are so hard to open for me....it's like instant annihilation haha
Give me your favorite creative openers (field tested, ones that work for you, not just stuff you copied from online) for the following situations (and preferably something to follow up with):
College House Party (mostly this one)
Packed College Bar
College club
(inb4 "Hi." or "Hey.")