i'm curious to know what you guys think actually happened.
i messaged a pof 37 year old, no kids, i suspect her husband/bf left her were together 15 years etc.. we get down to some dirty talk on whatsapp (she gave her number on pof) she sends me bikini pics and promised to send some underwear/naked pics after her shower that evening (she never sent them - i asked twice, no response to it). earlier she talked about meeting seeing if there's a spark then getting red wine then back to hers, so i assume she had some IL. so yesterday i set up to meet on Saturday telling her where to meet she said 'i was thinking sunday' i said 'ok no problem' then changed the topic to dirty talk again asking if she'd be wearing sexy underwear for me (tame compared to the sex talk we talked about on Monday - so dirty talk isn't the reason) she responds with yesterday: 'maybe, definitely jeans', i didn't respond, not because i didn't want to but because i realised i was contacting too much so should cool it till the weekend when we actually meet. cos she's a bit damaged i suspect she needs more validation. normally i'd have sent back 'nice' and maybe i should have.
she messages me this morning 'hi, what do you think? so what's the verdict gona be?' i didn't know what she was talking about, i felt she meant her outfit.. she whatsapps me 'oscar pistorius trial', i send back 'oh i dont know' then her 'strange, thought you were a smart guy' then blocks me on whatsapp. wtf? crazy b1tch. was she just looking for an excuse to not see me/block me? or because i wasn't giving her enough attention or validation i was before?
i sensed something was up with her, like because i wasn't super eager like i was on monday she automatically assumes i'm less interested and that p1sses her off so she blocks me to get back at me. does anyone have a good explanation as to why that happened?
i messaged a pof 37 year old, no kids, i suspect her husband/bf left her were together 15 years etc.. we get down to some dirty talk on whatsapp (she gave her number on pof) she sends me bikini pics and promised to send some underwear/naked pics after her shower that evening (she never sent them - i asked twice, no response to it). earlier she talked about meeting seeing if there's a spark then getting red wine then back to hers, so i assume she had some IL. so yesterday i set up to meet on Saturday telling her where to meet she said 'i was thinking sunday' i said 'ok no problem' then changed the topic to dirty talk again asking if she'd be wearing sexy underwear for me (tame compared to the sex talk we talked about on Monday - so dirty talk isn't the reason) she responds with yesterday: 'maybe, definitely jeans', i didn't respond, not because i didn't want to but because i realised i was contacting too much so should cool it till the weekend when we actually meet. cos she's a bit damaged i suspect she needs more validation. normally i'd have sent back 'nice' and maybe i should have.
she messages me this morning 'hi, what do you think? so what's the verdict gona be?' i didn't know what she was talking about, i felt she meant her outfit.. she whatsapps me 'oscar pistorius trial', i send back 'oh i dont know' then her 'strange, thought you were a smart guy' then blocks me on whatsapp. wtf? crazy b1tch. was she just looking for an excuse to not see me/block me? or because i wasn't giving her enough attention or validation i was before?
i sensed something was up with her, like because i wasn't super eager like i was on monday she automatically assumes i'm less interested and that p1sses her off so she blocks me to get back at me. does anyone have a good explanation as to why that happened?