VikingKing
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Just had test- came NEGATIVE. Fvcked her for 12 months. Saw pics on internet HSV 2...then said NEXT...btw she also has BPD..so was no brainer.Burroughs said:A thread like this really brings to light how sex addicted and moronic modern men are.
modern women will next for the merest hint of a slight....
too short...def next
poor....next
no house...next
live with parents....next
wrong hair color....next
six pack a little flabby because you're in gain phase....next
lose job......def next (even the good ones eventually)
not handsome enough...won't even talk to you
women don't give a flying fvck about personality
but men won't next for those reasons....we want to fvck!
but for men not to next a bish for an STD?!...you are NOT being the better man..you are a desperate white knight wanting to play hero..talking about her great 'personality'?!....thats fine if you're a lesbian looking to take long walks and visit bed and breakfasts...not a man playing russian roulette just to get your d!ck wet!
That true. Any woman may have it. But if you know she definetely has it, then your an idiot for carrying on with her.Zunder said:Well, as someone who recently has contracted Herpes - let me tell you a few facts....
*The only way to be sure of never getting Herpes is to never fvck any woman ever again. Even if you are currently in a monogamous relationship, she or you may have it and never know it. Condomns do not stop you getting herpes.
*There are blood tests for it - but even they can be inaccurate giving either false postives or vice versca. Really - only a culture swab taken when you have an outbreak is the only surfire method to learn if oyu have it.
*One in four sexually active women has Herpes. READ THAT AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN until if firmly lodges into your brain.
*My personal experience of my outbreak was pain when passing urine for three days - and thats it. Since I got diagnosed almost 6 months ago, I have had no outbreak again.
*The images of Herpes and weeping sores all over your **** are such bvll****. Those images are NOT the norm. The norm is my relatively minor "diiscomfort".
If you have a immune system that is shot - somewhat akin to an AIDS patient - then yes, you could get an array of bad sores. Most of the sores, if you get any, go away quickly - and you may never ever get another outbreak again for the rest of your life.
*Any chick that fesses up and tells you she has Herpes before you fvck - IS A WOMAN OF OUTSTANDING CHARACTER - and if you decline a relationship with her you should still treat her with the utmost respect.
*The problem with Herpes is not the virus itself - it is the STIGMA. Herpes is so minor from a disease point of view its not funny. A bad cold or flu is much worse. Its the STIGMA thats the problem.
*Any woman that wants to be with you when you tell her you have Herpes and she doesn't have it, is, again, A WOMAN OF OUTSTANDING CHARACTER that she can put all the overhped bvll**** about Herpes aside and treat you like the normal man you are.
For me - since my diagnosis, I have realised just how unworthy most women are of my time and attention. Pre-Herpes, I realise now the only reason I gave these women my time of day was because I wanted to stick my dik in their hole - thats it.
If I am never intimate again with a woman - so be it. While I was initally pisssed off that I caught this virus, I can tell you I never went close to being in the depressed state I have been in when things have gone wrong with women in my relationships in my pre-Herpes time.
While my casual sex days are over - I take solace in the fact that any woman I do end up with, that accepts my Herpes, is some special kind of woman.
Of course - you have the option of not telling prospective women that you have Herpes, and carry on as normal - i.e keep fvcking chicks like you did before. For me - I can't do that - despite my low opinion of most women in the western world - they are still human beings and they have a right to know if you have an STD or not. I could not live with myself if I fcvked around and didn't tell a chick of my Herpes status.
Some people can - and do. But that's not who I am.
EDIT: I have HSV2, supposedly the worse one to get. Also - I don't take antivirals, apart for the first week I had my one and only "outbreak". Popping anti-viral pills for the rest of your life is a waste of time and money, and is buying into the hype that the drug companies rejoice in as their bank accounts swell. Also - your own immune system will take care of the virus if you stay healthy - and this goes for most viruses. It is a poignant fact that most people seemingly don't realise that there are NO CURES for viruses. Only bacterial diseases can be somewhat controlled with anti-biotics. Herpes has been around as long as genital crabs - i.e FOREVER. You chicken pox as a kid? You still have it. Your immune system has just dealt with it so well that you never get symptoms again......this by the way, is the theory of how vaccines work.
The chick I was banging was married. Said her hubby gave it to her because of his ex-gf. I next her because she is so fvcking dumb. Ex-gf my ass. He probably was down in Tijuana fvcking anything that moves for year.SoldMySoul said:I disagree with your assessment sir on women with STDs having low moral character. Just maybe she contracted it from an a cheating ex, or perhaps from someone like me when I had them on my lips and was unaware. Or maybe she got it from anybody... I would not paint with such a broad brush because speaking of paint, you would paint yourself in a corner with an untrue statement like that.
But if she was whoring around doing anybody and everybody, then yes, your statement would be dead on the money.
Well, that took balls.Desdinova said:I contacted a bunch of the chicks that I fvcked over the last year, and all of them are apparently clean. In other words, nobody's been infected by me.
I wanted to find out who infected me, and this was the only way to do it. I don't give a fvck what those women thought about me since I'm done with them anyway. But I was able to figure out which bytch gave it to me. I was in a LTR with her for 9 months. I probably would have been safer having a bunch of one-night stands than staying with someone who avoided telling me she had it. I know damn well she knew she had it after thinking about a few of the bizarre things that went on during that relationship.TyTe`EyEz said:Well, that took balls.
So I'm curious will you tell women now that you have it?Desdinova said:I wanted to find out who infected me, and this was the only way to do it. I don't give a fvck what those women thought about me since I'm done with them anyway. But I was able to figure out which bytch gave it to me. I was in a LTR with her for 9 months. I probably would have been safer having a bunch of one-night stands than staying with someone who avoided telling me she had it. I know damn well she knew she had it after thinking about a few of the bizarre things that went on during that relationship.
I've had to do quite a bit of thinking about that one. Basically, I need to have two columns to put women into. One column being women who are only good for a lay. Anyone in that column, I'd be free to fvck with a condom while not having any outbreaks. The condom covers where I get outbreaks, so things should be okay especially if the virus is sitting dormant.So I'm curious will you tell women now that you have it?
The red flags weren't immediately noticeable as she seemed like a nice girl who was down to earth. The only potential red flag in the beginning was that she was in her mid-30s, never married, never engaged, no kids, never lived with a guy. The problem with all of that is she was effectively high mileage, and likely a cvm dumpster for many men. I should have just stuck to fvcking younger women.So you were dating the chick for 9 months and she had it but never told you? what where the red flags...
When I informed the girl I'm seeing, I made the conversation as non-awkward as I could make it. I asked her if she had any health problems. After she answered, I disclosed the herpes (I didn't actually use the H word, I refered to it as cold sores "down there") and she got the hint. I compare the H word to the word "date". Women generally don't like hearing the word "date" in the early stages of dating. They'd rather hear "hang out" or "meet up".Last week I was on a date (a 2nd date) with a woman who told me she had herpes, the whole conversation was weird.
This is what I do.Desdinova said:I need to have two columns to put women into. One column being women who are only good for a lay. Anyone in that column, I'd be free to fvck with a condom while not having any outbreaks. The condom covers where I get outbreaks, so things should be okay especially if the virus is sitting dormant.
The other column is for women who are good LTR potential. These are the women I would prefer to see on a regular basis, and I have to tell them I have it before fvcking them.
This pretty much sums it up.Zunder said:*One in four sexually active women has Herpes. READ THAT AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN until if firmly lodges into your brain.
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*Any chick that fesses up and tells you she has Herpes before you fvck - IS A WOMAN OF OUTSTANDING CHARACTER - and if you decline a relationship with her you should still treat her with the utmost respect.
Wait so you banged her raw holmes?QuadDeuces said:Yes I rooted a girl with the herps about 100x, who fycking told me after an std phone call that she was clean and we had a green light to rid the connies.
One day she had such an outbreak she couldnt lie anymore, and blamed me for putting her in the position to lie about it.
Rat trash piece of BPD garbage, luckily I don't seem infected, knock on wood. Never saw or spoke to her again.
You shouldnt want people in your life that remorselessly put your health on the line.
She was what.....SAYNO said:Thats the reason i dont eat *****! Had never eaten a girl out before and the first time i do she was....
It was really difficult to deal with at first, but then I learned how manageable it is. I avoid eating the foods that are major triggers, keep my stress down (which is fairly easy for me) and take a couple of inexpensive pills daily.Props to Des and others who are forthcoming and shared their experiences with us.