DragonBlood
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 20, 2012
- Messages
- 520
- Reaction score
- 31
- Age
- 36
On and off flirting with one of the girls from work. Recently she kept bringing up how single and depressed she was so I decided to make a move. I ****ed it up though and could use some damage control advice.
DB: Hey becky its the long weekend I was wonder if you wanted to go out?
Becky: *Big smile* I cant Im travelling today for a presentation abroad (truth, not unusual in her line of work)
DB: No! Why are you always such a pain?
Becky: I will be back on Sunday we can go out then and we can go to lunch today anyway
I ask her to show me the presentation shes working and just more about the trip. Some idle chatter later we both seem relaxed so I decide to give her a kiss before I go back to work... but.. she freaks and pushed me away
Becky: What are you doing?
DB: I was going to give you a kiss?
Becky: Im working right now do you not think its appropriate?
DB: I dont worry about these things... *I notice the shocked expression on her face*... but you do..
DB: Becky I didnt mean to upset you
Becky: *ignores and focus on work*
I gather my things and ask her hesitantly if she still wants to hang out when she is back (weak on my part but I could see the mood had changed)
Becky: *with shocked expression* I need to think about it
DB: great... *I leave*
I decide not to go to lunch because it would be too awkward and just look desperate. I have not heard from her by text. Naturally I assume the date is off so that is not my goal here. She is abroad at the moment but Im concerned how this could play out being one of the girls at the office I see often. Pretending nothing happened seems risky.
This happened yesterday and I havent sent her any messages either, but I feel that I have too. This is what I have so far but I could really use some advice on how to diffuse this.
Should I send? What should I do in this situation?
DB: Hey becky its the long weekend I was wonder if you wanted to go out?
Becky: *Big smile* I cant Im travelling today for a presentation abroad (truth, not unusual in her line of work)
DB: No! Why are you always such a pain?
Becky: I will be back on Sunday we can go out then and we can go to lunch today anyway
I ask her to show me the presentation shes working and just more about the trip. Some idle chatter later we both seem relaxed so I decide to give her a kiss before I go back to work... but.. she freaks and pushed me away
Becky: What are you doing?
DB: I was going to give you a kiss?
Becky: Im working right now do you not think its appropriate?
DB: I dont worry about these things... *I notice the shocked expression on her face*... but you do..
DB: Becky I didnt mean to upset you
Becky: *ignores and focus on work*
I gather my things and ask her hesitantly if she still wants to hang out when she is back (weak on my part but I could see the mood had changed)
Becky: *with shocked expression* I need to think about it
DB: great... *I leave*
I decide not to go to lunch because it would be too awkward and just look desperate. I have not heard from her by text. Naturally I assume the date is off so that is not my goal here. She is abroad at the moment but Im concerned how this could play out being one of the girls at the office I see often. Pretending nothing happened seems risky.
This happened yesterday and I havent sent her any messages either, but I feel that I have too. This is what I have so far but I could really use some advice on how to diffuse this.
Couldnt face into my meals at all feel like a total ass. Im sorry to ruin your trip.
Should I send? What should I do in this situation?