What's up muthafukkas? Let's jump right into this beast...
I found sosuave way back in March, and soonafter, I had the usual epiphanies. I thought to myself, "OMG, I've been the king of AFCs and I didn't even know it." Then I recognized that I had a problem, I began to recover.
Among the revolutionary posts I read were Pook's "Be a Man,"
Photo 1's "For those who just CAN'T approach" and Mr. Fingers' "Weapons of Mass Seduction."
Everything was on the upspin. I was conscious of my AFC behaviors, and I was intent on ridding myself of those plagues.
I started working out every other day, getting a lot of sleep, eating healthy, getting numbers, and for the first time in years I was positive and HAPPY!
I was convinced that I was on the road of DJ greatness. I got numbers like never before in my life. I started standing up straight and using a sensual tone in my voice. I couldn't help but smile at the mysteries that are people. I instantly saw the positive in every person I met.
I was proud of myself for rising through the ranks, for what I had accomplished. I had completely turned around my shytty attitude, I was healthier, and I was no longer intimidated by girls. I embraced concepts like challenge ,mystery , C&F, and scarcity...
HOWEVER
As time wore on, I became lax-- like the once great kings and emperors of ages past. I became too satisfied with what I had done. My progress stagnated. I actually began to regress when my PE class (in which I had been weightlifting) was swapped out for Free Enterprise. My confidence dwindled as I no longer had a hard-body. I became depressed at the thought of having gotten so many numbers and having no way of setting up a true date. I just got my license and my parents are anal about letting me take the car out on the weekend. Basically, that left me to bum rides with friends and only interact with girls during "group outings."
****block after ****block resulted. This leads me to where I'm at today.
I'm tired of making excuses for myself. I'm tired of letting my parents have so much control over my life. I'm tired of letting other people's negative psychological filters (riminiscent of my old AFC filter) influence the way I think and the decisions I make.
My ultimate goal is to bust through all of this shyt and to become my Ideal Self.
I am going to do this by forming goals for myself in a sort of improv BootCamp fashion. On Friday, I'll be going out to a skating rink and a bowling alley with some friends. My goal is to get at least 3 numbers that night.
I am going to kick this thing off tonight by beginning to re-read the DJB.
Feel completely free to comment, share your own experiences, whatever you want. Any input is good input!
Let's do this!
Duke
I found sosuave way back in March, and soonafter, I had the usual epiphanies. I thought to myself, "OMG, I've been the king of AFCs and I didn't even know it." Then I recognized that I had a problem, I began to recover.
Among the revolutionary posts I read were Pook's "Be a Man,"
Photo 1's "For those who just CAN'T approach" and Mr. Fingers' "Weapons of Mass Seduction."
Everything was on the upspin. I was conscious of my AFC behaviors, and I was intent on ridding myself of those plagues.
I started working out every other day, getting a lot of sleep, eating healthy, getting numbers, and for the first time in years I was positive and HAPPY!
I was convinced that I was on the road of DJ greatness. I got numbers like never before in my life. I started standing up straight and using a sensual tone in my voice. I couldn't help but smile at the mysteries that are people. I instantly saw the positive in every person I met.
I was proud of myself for rising through the ranks, for what I had accomplished. I had completely turned around my shytty attitude, I was healthier, and I was no longer intimidated by girls. I embraced concepts like challenge ,mystery , C&F, and scarcity...
HOWEVER
As time wore on, I became lax-- like the once great kings and emperors of ages past. I became too satisfied with what I had done. My progress stagnated. I actually began to regress when my PE class (in which I had been weightlifting) was swapped out for Free Enterprise. My confidence dwindled as I no longer had a hard-body. I became depressed at the thought of having gotten so many numbers and having no way of setting up a true date. I just got my license and my parents are anal about letting me take the car out on the weekend. Basically, that left me to bum rides with friends and only interact with girls during "group outings."
****block after ****block resulted. This leads me to where I'm at today.
I'm tired of making excuses for myself. I'm tired of letting my parents have so much control over my life. I'm tired of letting other people's negative psychological filters (riminiscent of my old AFC filter) influence the way I think and the decisions I make.
My ultimate goal is to bust through all of this shyt and to become my Ideal Self.
I am going to do this by forming goals for myself in a sort of improv BootCamp fashion. On Friday, I'll be going out to a skating rink and a bowling alley with some friends. My goal is to get at least 3 numbers that night.
I am going to kick this thing off tonight by beginning to re-read the DJB.
Feel completely free to comment, share your own experiences, whatever you want. Any input is good input!
Let's do this!
Duke