bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
I'm just as sick & tired as all of you, being called "shallow" and "superficial" just because I won't mess around with fat chicks. Jeesh, I throw up in my mouth, imagining my face in some fat chick's coochie. That's not being shallow.
Here's what came finally to me: If being fat is such a superficial issue for women, why do they make it into an insurmountable challenge? It's only superficial when they WANT it to be-- ie, when they think they should be able to attract men in spite of it. As soon as it's time to knock off some poundage, the barriers go up. It's not so superficial, anymore!
:woo:
The crazy thing is, men are genuinely a lot more forgiving about serious sh*t a woman is struggling with in her life... stuff that tears her self esteem down so badly, she can't bear to let a decent man into her life.
Here's what came finally to me: If being fat is such a superficial issue for women, why do they make it into an insurmountable challenge? It's only superficial when they WANT it to be-- ie, when they think they should be able to attract men in spite of it. As soon as it's time to knock off some poundage, the barriers go up. It's not so superficial, anymore!
:woo:
The crazy thing is, men are genuinely a lot more forgiving about serious sh*t a woman is struggling with in her life... stuff that tears her self esteem down so badly, she can't bear to let a decent man into her life.