This happened with a friend of mine at work who frankly needs to get laid badly. Anyway, the story goes like this:
There is a girl that just starting working. The two hit it off and talked for hours. I taught him C+F and it worked well (I was nearby and thought since he talked to her first, I wouldn't do anything of my own) That was the first day. Then I taught him the art of being busy and basically aloof. So he says nothing for a week. Then one day she goes up to him and says "Whats the deal?" and he said "What?" She said "I'm just wondering why you never talk to me?" He just said he was busy and asked why she was wondering. She said "It just bothers me that some people don't like me." He walks off. He is telling me this along the way. Later that night, his friend (not me) makes a lot of sexual references to the guy and this girl to have sex after. She said she was a virgin which IMO is probably BS.
After that, she never talks to the guy. In fact, she talks to everyone around except him. He says he did the same thing to her a week ago. He asked me for my help. He said he is worried about it and said the last time he asked a girl out, he said it was "horrible rejection." I had no idea. I also asked her mom about her and the guy and she said that she did like him. Whether or not that means as friends or as a crush is beyond me because I never bothered to ask what kind of liking. So I'm asking the advice on people here. Please, leave the jerk comments like "What a weak ass ***** *****" behind. I think she feels one of two things for him:
1) She truly does not like him
2) She is playing the same games he did to her and she is actually very interested.
This could also be a test for DJs to solve like those one threads a few weeks back. Do not ignore this thread. Thanks in advance.
There is a girl that just starting working. The two hit it off and talked for hours. I taught him C+F and it worked well (I was nearby and thought since he talked to her first, I wouldn't do anything of my own) That was the first day. Then I taught him the art of being busy and basically aloof. So he says nothing for a week. Then one day she goes up to him and says "Whats the deal?" and he said "What?" She said "I'm just wondering why you never talk to me?" He just said he was busy and asked why she was wondering. She said "It just bothers me that some people don't like me." He walks off. He is telling me this along the way. Later that night, his friend (not me) makes a lot of sexual references to the guy and this girl to have sex after. She said she was a virgin which IMO is probably BS.
After that, she never talks to the guy. In fact, she talks to everyone around except him. He says he did the same thing to her a week ago. He asked me for my help. He said he is worried about it and said the last time he asked a girl out, he said it was "horrible rejection." I had no idea. I also asked her mom about her and the guy and she said that she did like him. Whether or not that means as friends or as a crush is beyond me because I never bothered to ask what kind of liking. So I'm asking the advice on people here. Please, leave the jerk comments like "What a weak ass ***** *****" behind. I think she feels one of two things for him:
1) She truly does not like him
2) She is playing the same games he did to her and she is actually very interested.
This could also be a test for DJs to solve like those one threads a few weeks back. Do not ignore this thread. Thanks in advance.