Enigma2517
Don Juan
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I like this one girl and I'm going to ask her out this week, but just recently, her not too bad looking friend has been hitting on me as well. IL is pretty peak with both of them...I'm sure I could get either one.
The problem: they're best friends. I know how girls like to gossip and ***** about past boyfriends, so I know that if eventually when I break up with one they'll go running to the other with plenty of nasty stories to tell.
I've already been in this situation once before with another set of friends. Really puts on some strain. Oh well. On the other hand...if I do good overall with them and show them what a fun person I am won't this kind of act like social proof? I'm sure they'd share at least a few good stories...who knows.
Is there a way I can have both? Seems to me like the only way to know is try...which I intend to do of course...I just want to know if any of you guys have had similiar scenarios and how they played out.
The other problem is I can't decide betweeen the two, they're dead even, but oh well thats a problem only I can figure out .
Help me out with the rest tho
The problem: they're best friends. I know how girls like to gossip and ***** about past boyfriends, so I know that if eventually when I break up with one they'll go running to the other with plenty of nasty stories to tell.
I've already been in this situation once before with another set of friends. Really puts on some strain. Oh well. On the other hand...if I do good overall with them and show them what a fun person I am won't this kind of act like social proof? I'm sure they'd share at least a few good stories...who knows.
Is there a way I can have both? Seems to me like the only way to know is try...which I intend to do of course...I just want to know if any of you guys have had similiar scenarios and how they played out.
The other problem is I can't decide betweeen the two, they're dead even, but oh well thats a problem only I can figure out .
Help me out with the rest tho