I've been trying to hook up with this woman for a while now.been
taking my time, cause she seems to have been hurt by someone a long
time ago.She seems to prefer texting and will often texts 10-15 times
a day when she isnt working. I let her text me first so as not to show
that I'm interested in her romantically, or at least don't have any
other women that I want as much as her. If I don't reply for a few
days, her texts become more frequent and they have a sense of urgency to them.
I want to take it slow with her, but I want to see progress too.
Now here's where the problem comes in. There are times when I will reply to her texts and say something that would/should move us deeper into the relationship, and she will just stop talking, texting or emailing. I might not hear from her for a week sometimes two, but so far she always seems to comeback. Yesterday I asked if I could call her because it was to difficult to try and text back and forth while at work, but I had time to talk to her on the phone. Well that was the trigger as far as yesterday. She has'nt replied to my requests or sent any emails or texts since then. I know that this is pretty messed up and you are probably thinking "why bother", but I think she is worth the wait if I can her to not do this. Will she come back? I don't know, but what I do know is that I won't chase after her. sent her one message this afternoon hoping she would reply, but if she does'nt I'm not going to keep trying. Just wondering if you guys have had similar situations and how you handled it
taking my time, cause she seems to have been hurt by someone a long
time ago.She seems to prefer texting and will often texts 10-15 times
a day when she isnt working. I let her text me first so as not to show
that I'm interested in her romantically, or at least don't have any
other women that I want as much as her. If I don't reply for a few
days, her texts become more frequent and they have a sense of urgency to them.
I want to take it slow with her, but I want to see progress too.
Now here's where the problem comes in. There are times when I will reply to her texts and say something that would/should move us deeper into the relationship, and she will just stop talking, texting or emailing. I might not hear from her for a week sometimes two, but so far she always seems to comeback. Yesterday I asked if I could call her because it was to difficult to try and text back and forth while at work, but I had time to talk to her on the phone. Well that was the trigger as far as yesterday. She has'nt replied to my requests or sent any emails or texts since then. I know that this is pretty messed up and you are probably thinking "why bother", but I think she is worth the wait if I can her to not do this. Will she come back? I don't know, but what I do know is that I won't chase after her. sent her one message this afternoon hoping she would reply, but if she does'nt I'm not going to keep trying. Just wondering if you guys have had similar situations and how you handled it