flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
I've known this girl for many years.. Not a very close friend, we just met once in a while because her best female friend is one of my best friends.
She always liked me and i knew it, but she never told me anything concrete so i avoided the subject because i wasnt interested in her. A week ago our friends dared us to kiss, so we ended up kissing. Also that night, i found out that she has a very dirty mind, which i liked.
A few days later she finally told me she liked me, so i was forced to deal with that somehow. I decided to try something i never tried before. I told her that i could unfortunately not offer her a (loving) relationship because i didnt feel the romantic chemistry, but i could offer her crazy sex with no feelings involved, if she was able to do that and not get any feelings for me. I also told her i want us to stay friends because we will most probably never be together, so she shouldnt get any hopes.
Anyway, she thought about it and told me she would love to have sex with me, but she's afraid she wont be able to stay emotionless towards me and she fears this will affect our friendship.
I heard this MANY times, that once 2 people have slept together, things are never the same afterwards and they have to be prepared to the possibility of losing each other afterwards.
What are your experiences regarding this? Thanks!
She always liked me and i knew it, but she never told me anything concrete so i avoided the subject because i wasnt interested in her. A week ago our friends dared us to kiss, so we ended up kissing. Also that night, i found out that she has a very dirty mind, which i liked.
A few days later she finally told me she liked me, so i was forced to deal with that somehow. I decided to try something i never tried before. I told her that i could unfortunately not offer her a (loving) relationship because i didnt feel the romantic chemistry, but i could offer her crazy sex with no feelings involved, if she was able to do that and not get any feelings for me. I also told her i want us to stay friends because we will most probably never be together, so she shouldnt get any hopes.
Anyway, she thought about it and told me she would love to have sex with me, but she's afraid she wont be able to stay emotionless towards me and she fears this will affect our friendship.
I heard this MANY times, that once 2 people have slept together, things are never the same afterwards and they have to be prepared to the possibility of losing each other afterwards.
What are your experiences regarding this? Thanks!