Call Me A Fool, I Want Her Back

[PlayHer Man]

Sentences like this are why we've seen the influx of white night nimrods like Jaylan, Zarky and others lately. PlayHer Man and his minions is so far on the other end of the spectrum that you've created a big divide, sort of like Republicans and Democrats. Sort of like how they say the opposite of socialism is dictatorship, not freedom.

So you're saying now that its MY FAULT other men are faggots? :crackup:

Are you f*cking kidding me? Why don't you blame the faggots for being faggots instead of blaming others. Apparently everything is the fault of real men --> Faggots, low quality skanks, sluts, feminism, etc.

PlayHer Man is the only person responsible for his behavior.. everyone else is a brainless sheep who can't help themselves because of PlayHer Man.

Nice one Speed Dawg. :crazy:

 

[speed dawg]

So you're saying now that its MY FAULT other men are faggots? :crackup:

No, I'm blaming you for their presence HERE, on this site.

Take away what it is that attracts them, and they'll leave. And you saying things like this:

Women exist to be mothers and sex toys.

....you invite them in. The rest of the post was pretty solid, but at the end of the day, women are human beings too. You take it too far.

 

[PlayHer Man]

No, I'm blaming you for their presence HERE, on this site.

Take away what it is that attracts them, and they'll leave. And you saying things like this:



....you invite them in. The rest of the post was pretty solid, but at the end of the day, women are human beings too. You take it too far.

Your are argument is absurd. I don't invite faggots to SoSuave by telling the truth about the game. They are here because they refuse to accept reality and want validation for their fairy tale beliefs. If they can flip some of us to their side.. that validates their false beliefs.

I'm fully aware that women are human beings. But so are homeless smelly bums on the street. So are terrorists. So is everyone in Prison. See where I'm going with this? --> Its a moot point.

At the end of the day it comes down to what people offer others. Women (especially now) basically offer sex and reproduction in the context of a romantic relationship. Can they offer more? Sure.. but when you calculate what you offer THEM, plus the drama and other crap women create.... the only real profit on your end is the sex and reproduction.

 

[Married Buried]

So, she wants to come back. We're talking again. Her family isn't giving her the attention she wants obviously, and she's already told me some brand new abuse stories. "They threw away all my furniture to teach me a lesson." "I got smacked for saying I want to go back to you." "They won't let me drive my own car!" "They forced me to block you, they want me to forget all about you."

I used to think the place was rape central with all the rape stories she told me. Now I think it's BPD central. Several of her friends have symptoms too. No wonder there's around 40 support groups for it in the area.

We are going to need to see a pic of this woman to determine if she is worth us helping you get her back. If she is hot enough, we will make sure she comes back to you. Post it up.

 

[Fizzlerather]

We are going to need to see a pic of this woman to determine if she is worth us helping you get her back. If she is hot enough, we will make sure she comes back to you. Post it up.

I'd rather keep our identities private, but I can give you a description. Until recently she had the same measurements as Christina Hendricks, except she's 5'1, and her breasts recently went up from 38DDD to 38E.

She's a fantastic cook, and during her highs she's extremely horny and devoted. She has glasses, a light pattern of adorable freckles across her cheeks, and her cheeks are naturally extremely rosy. Everyone assumes she's wearing make up, but that's just her face.

All of that is exactly what I'm into.

 

[Speculator E]

I'd rather keep our identities private, but I can give you a description. Until recently she had the same measurements as Christina Hendricks, except she's 5'1, and her breasts recently went up from 38DDD to 38E.

That's weird. Most of the BPD I know are short. Is short height a common BPD trait? They already act like children, nature might as well make their height short like children.

 

[Married Buried]

I'd rather keep our identities private, but I can give you a description. Until recently she had the same measurements as Christina Hendricks, except she's 5'1, and her breasts recently went up from 38DDD to 38E.

She's a fantastic cook, and during her highs she's extremely horny and devoted. She has glasses, a light pattern of adorable freckles across her cheeks, and her cheeks are naturally extremely rosy. Everyone assumes she's wearing make up, but that's just her face.

All of that is exactly what I'm into.

Come on man I used to post pics all the time, nobody reads this board or is going to know.

http://tinypic.com/

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I'd rather keep our identities private

Good for you.

[/B] But so are homeless smelly bums on the street. So are terrorists. So is everyone in Prison. See where I'm going with this? --> Its a moot point.

But not all women are smelly bums or terrorists or in prison.

speed dawg does bring up a valid point.

 

[usernamedox11]

I didn't read your post fully. Just end it with her and go NC. You will get over her with time. I've been there and done that. Was madly in love with a BPD girl but she wasn't as bad as yours. Just trust us. I had the same feelings as you initially.

You can do better bro. No one deserves to be with someone who has BPD. Not unless that BPD you're with is aware she has is it and is dedicated to therapy/getting better. Even then, just find someone who doesn't have BPD. Cliche but you only live once, and why waste your life on someone who will likely not appreciate you or your efforts in the end? Your life and time is worth more than that.

 

[MikeOck]

Call Me A Fool...

You're a fool. Feel better? Maybe you're a masochist too?

...

You can do better bro. No one deserves to be with someone who has BPD. Not unless that BPD you're with is aware she has is it and is dedicated to therapy/getting better. Even then, just find someone who doesn't have BPD. Cliche but you only live once, and why waste your life on someone who will likely not appreciate you or your efforts in the end? Your life and time is worth more than that.

This.

Lose the scarcity mentality. Another cliche, but there ARE plenty of Fish In The Sea. If you get stuck on catching that one fish, you miss the ocean of fish all around you, many of whom are tastier, better for you and practically jumping into your boat.

 

[Vigs]

http://gettinbetter.com/articles.html

read them all.

Mine was tall, raped at 12 by stepdads friends while stepdad watched. Held down by her hair by ex husband so his buddies could rape her, beat up by every man etc, yet still hangs with the people who abused and raped her.

On ex BF held a gun to her head and made her get an abortion. blah blah yappity yap. It is all lies.

"Oh they are better people now and changed so much".

Who knows what crimes I have been accused of doing to her.

At least once a week I still get a text or email from her.

Drop her, move on, get counseling and core healing. You are an addict.

 

[SecondHalf]

I read these stories in horror.

I mean, I've had to deal with narcissism, histrionic, and women who lie/fight dirty but these are characteristics that describe so many and besides, it's relative.

What I don't understand is the attraction/lure to someone who is completely delusional. I get if they're gorgeous and on their best behavior, and you're fooled, but how can you continue when you realize you're dealing with someone who's completely whacked? Worse, you'd consider going back to ... that!

I've always thought I must have been with a BPD chick at some point, but I guess I've never hung around long enough to see the true personality come out.

Really ... how can you stand it?

SH

 

[LiveFreeX]

On ex BF held a gun to her head and made her get an abortion.

Mine said that aswell. We should release a BPD trading card game.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Good for you.



But not all women are smelly bums or terrorists or in prison.

speed dawg does bring up a valid point.

No he doesn't.

You missed my point entirely. Read what I said again. Slowly.

Here is my point since you missed it --> Whether you're a terrorist, a doctor or a middle school kid you are still a human being. Everyone is a human being. So should we treat everyone exactly the same for that reason?

THAT is my point.

 

[instantnoodles]

No he doesn't.

You missed my point entirely. Read what I said again. Slowly.

Here is my point since you missed it --> Whether you're a terrorist, a doctor or a middle school kid you are still a human being. Everyone is a human being. So should we treat everyone exactly the same for that reason?

THAT is my point.

So....can anyone be LESS than a human being then? Or MORE? I don't think so.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

No he doesn't.

You missed my point entirely. Read what I said again. Slowly.

Here is my point since you missed it --> Whether you're a terrorist, a doctor or a middle school kid you are still a human being. Everyone is a human being. So should we treat everyone exactly the same for that reason?

THAT is my point.

Of course not.

Okay, so not all women are the same then right? Should we treat all women the same?

That's mine.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Of course not.

Okay, so not all women are the same then right? Should we treat all women the same?

That's mine.

Any woman who can demonstrate that she offers more than sex and reproduction in the context of a relationship will be treated like a woman who offers more than sex and reproduction in a relationship.

So....can anyone be LESS than a human being then? Or MORE? I don't think so.

The bottom line is being a human being doesn't entitled you to sh!t.

People are judged by their actions and what they offer others.. NOT by being born human beings. Why does a dog get to live free in many homes over some random human? --> Because a dog offers something special.

You must offer something to be entitled to something. Offer nothing and you deserve nothing.

Often times women will offer a lot up front (or early in a relationship).. then get lazy later and try to offer less. YET they'll expect the man to offer equal or MORE than he did before. Its like believing you just have to do a good job at work for the first few months. Then you can stop showing up and stop working but still get paid, plus raises and bonuses. :crackup:

 

[instantnoodles]

Any woman who can demonstrate that she offers more than sex and reproduction in the context of a relationship will be treated like a woman who offers more than sex and reproduction in a relationship.






The bottom line is being a human being doesn't entitled you to sh!t.

People are judged by their actions and what they offer others.. NOT by being born human beings. Why does a dog get to live free in many homes over some random human? --> Because a dog offers something special.

You must offer something to be entitled to something. Offer nothing and you deserve nothing.

Often times women will offer a lot up front (or early in a relationship).. then get lazy later and try to offer less. YET they'll expect the man to offer equal or MORE than he did before. Its like believing you just have to do a good job at work for the first few months. Then you can stop showing up and stop working but still get paid, plus raises and bonuses. :crackup:

I see...

Good lesson, dear

 

[Fizzlerather]

Well, for the time being the situation is giving me the upperhand. I'm predicting some pretty fantastic sex when she gets back, and at the very least this is one particular stunt she won't be able to pull again. She's offering a lot of stuff for me to let her come back. She's offering to do all sorts of sexual stuff she knows appeals to me, but she had claimed she was unable to do. She's also telling me she needs to give me complete control over her when she gets back, in the bedroom and out. Seems like a bit of a hassle, but it basically means her day to day schedule will be determined by me, and she'll supposedly do what I want when I want no matter what 24 hours a day, in the bedroom and out. I told her part of that would be BPD counseling, and she consented. She's going to basically burn all her bridges with everyone there to come back.

Now, she could just be lying -I guess that could be said of all her statements- but everyone up there, all her friends and family despise me, and I've asked her and asked one of them who briefly "confronted" me, and neither she nor they can explain anything I did that justifies her leaving. The friend simply said I "hurt" her and I'm too stupid to know how. Of course, I've witnessed all of these people layer heaps of abuse on her, far beyond anything I've ever said or done. I've never insulted her, raised a hand to her, or forced myself on her, so I'm perplexed. In any event, of her stories are to be believed (and I know, they're most likely not) they're all nuts. Really, really nuts. Like, she claims once she got there they threw away a lot of the stuff in the uhaul and threw away the majority of her clothes. I'm going to have her give me a webcam tour of her old bedroom there, because she claims they're not allowing her to put any of the furniture back, but are forcing her to sleep in her old bedroom, the one two of her most traumatic rapes occurred in. I want to make sure she isn't just planning to leave her furniture in that room and clothes in case she wants to take off again.

In any event, she went up there without any money or anything, and she'd need like 100 bucks to get back (her car insurance expired, and she needs gas money) and rather than me pay for it, she's selling some of her things up there to make the money to come back.

Oh and of course in the few days she's back up there she's already received one death threat and one threat of rape.

 

[Trailboss]

Well, after reading your missive about the BPD and your strongly worded intentions of "getting her back" and how nobody can stop you, I won't offer any words of wisdom. Just a prediction: Pain. That is all you are ever going to get for trying. More pain. Since you seem to enjoy pain, have fun with that bro. It's already a complete, utter FAIL. It will never, EVER change...it will just get more and more painful.

Pain...that's all ya get.